What should I wear on Monday night?

[Anonymous]

I’m going out on Monday night, with friends, to a dinner party, in a pub, for people with Autism. I’m mildly Autistic, have mild Asperger’s Syndrome; was diagnosed late, mid twenties. I’ve lost a lot of weight and I’m beautiful now, but I’m socially awkward; and pretty much a big, raging nerd. I suck at flirting and a feel big and awkward and self conscious about my large, curvy body. I hope to meet someone I might like there, who might return my feelings; but it’s going to be boiling hot that night, so I can’t wear any of my really nice clothes. Is it ok to wear my black and white checked maxi dress and jazz it up with nice sandals, jewellery and some lip gloss? Will that help me to look a bit better?

[Oliverlogan263]

A black and white checked maxi dress sounds cute for a summery dinner party thing! As long as it's comfy who cares what anyone else thinks, you know?

And dressing it up with dope sandals and jewellery is a good move. Guys definitely notice accessories and stuff too, it'll make you feel all put together. Oh and lip gloss is always a classic - gives your lips a nice juicy glow hehe.

I wouldn't stress too much about it tho, just be yourself girl! Own what you got. You said you lost weight and feel beautiful now right? Then rock it! If a guy is into you he'll like you for you.

Plus with it being an autism group everyone will be chill I'm sure. You don't gotta be a flirty pro or anything. Just have fun! Maybe you'll vibe with someone and it'll be all good. You got this sis!

[slatyb]

Your idea is perfectly fine.

[7Phoenix7]

Wear whatever you think looks good on you. What you think about yourself is the most important. When you look in the mirror and think, "I look good." Then you are good to go 👍

[kareka]

Why u can't wear any of ur nice clothes?

[Asker]

It’s too hot. They’re too heavy. Thirty nine degrees Celsius.

[kareka]

Ohhh
U dont have sexy summer clothes?

[kareka]

U said u are curvy and sexy
Its easy to find a guy

[Asker]

It’s actually not so easy, but not impossible either 😊

[kareka]

How is it not impossible?
Sorry for asking