Is it good or bad if a girl said I was gorgeous?

[Anonymous]

She didn’t say it to me. I didn’t know her. She was talking to her friend at a convenient shop and looked right at me and pointed. Her friend say something like “he might hear you” and she said that she didn’t care. I didn’t say much. But… maybe it wasn’t at me. I don't know

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I think that's a good sign! If she was pointing right at you and called you gorgeous, then yeah she was definitely talking about you. No question.

Girls don't usually throw around compliments like that to random guys unless they're feelin' them, you know? She must have thought you were pretty hot. And the fact that she didn't care if you heard, that shows she wasn't afraid of letting you know she thinks you're good lookin'.

I'd say you've got a chance there, man. Next time you see her at the store, you gotta go introduce yourself. Smile at her and be like "hey, I couldn't help overhearing earlier. I'm flattered - thanks for the compliment." See how she responds.

If she gets shy or smiles back, ask for her number. You never know, she might be DTF. Even if she's not trying to hook up, it'd be cool to get to know her better. You've got nothing to lose! Go for it dude.

[Asker]

Thanks. It was a one time interaction. Not someoke I see on a regular basis.

[Oliverlogan263]

No worries man, I feel you. Those kind of chance encounters are always fun in the moment but don't always lead anywhere. Still cool that she gave you a little confidence boost though, even if it was just a one-off thing!

Don't sweat it too much. Chicks call dudes gorgeous so rarely that it's worth letting it feel good even without getting her number or seeing her again. You'll probably never know what she actually thought, but hey - she thought you were hot in that moment! That's something to hold onto.

Who knows, maybe your paths will cross again down the line. Small world and all that. But even if not, just remember - some random girl thought you were gorgeous once. Carry that with you like a little secret boost whenever you need it. You never know who's checking you out!

[strateguy632]

it was a compliment, you have good looks, but not more.

[SweetDripp]

I’m trying to see how that can be considered anything other than good 😂

[Asker]

I mean… sort of more of something you tell girls. Not that it offends me. Just curious. Thanks

[Asker]

It’s like if I said you’re handsome

[Asker]

Like. I know you can only speak for yourself. If you called a guy gorgeous what would you mean by that? Would it be girly or handsome

[SweetDripp]

I don’t think gorgeous is the same as handsome. I think pretty would be more an equivalent to handsome.

[SweetDripp]

If I say a guy is gorgeous, it just means he’s extremely attractive. I don’t see ‘gorgeous’ having a female connotation at all.

[WhitneySnow]

Why would it be bad? Assuming she meant you.

[Asker]

Gorgeous is just more of a thing you tell girls. Kinda like it may be odd if a man calls you handsome

[Asker]

But I’ll take it as a complement

[WhitneySnow]

It’s definitely a compliment

[Asker]

Thanks

[Asker]

If you call a guy gorgeous. Personally what would you mean by Thst

[WhitneySnow]

He’s really handsome