Someone be my therapist? lol?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been feeling empty because the girl who made me feel special and gave me hope acts like i didn't even exist.
So basically i met this person a year ago and we quickly became close, we hang out and stuff. We met yesterday and she acts like she didn't even see me and didn’t even wave hand or say hi and goodbye, not a single word, i was kinda shocked ngl what make her suddenly act so cold (she was with a female friend if that helps?)

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I forgot to say im 16 lol

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang bro, that's really rough. Breaking that connection with someone you cared about can feel like a gut punch. Let's unpack this a bit:

It sounds like this girl brought you a lot of joy and meaning. Her sudden change in behavior has you questioning where you stand. That lack of clarity or closure is hard to process.

From what you've said, it seems there may be more behind her actions that you're unaware of. Could be something going on personally for her, or maybe her friend influenced things. Either way, that's on her - try not to take it too personally.

For now, the best thing is to give yourself time and space to heal. Lean on other close friends/family for support. Journaling your feelings could help too. Don't be too hard on yourself as you work through the hurt.

In the end, as painful as this is, it may guide you to people who treat you with consistency and care. Try to see it as her loss, not yours. You deserve someone who lifts you up without doubt or drama.

This too shall pass my man. Keep your head up - better days are ahead when you're ready to receive them again. You've got this bro! Just take it one day at a time.

[Asker]

I talked with her via text today, she asked me if im too tired (we saw each other at 11pm) and then said something like “i wanted to talk but you left too early” then she asked if im free on weekends. To be honest she talking like nothing happened, im mot bringing it up in conversations but i can't forget the way she looked me in the eyes and didn't say a word

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, this girl is messing with your head big time! On the one hand, she's completely ignoring you in person. Then over text she acts like nothing happened and wants to hang out. I don't know what her deal is, but that is confusing AF behavior.

My advice would be to tread lightly here. If you do hang out again on the weekend, don't expect things to be totally normal right away. See how she's acting towards you in person this time before fully trusting her again. Bringing up how she blanked you yesterday wouldn't be the worst idea either, just to get an explanation. Maybe she'll be honest about what was up.

But I'd also be a bit guarded with my feelings from now on. This girl has shown she's not very reliable or consistent. The last thing you need is anymore mind games that leave you feeling crummy again. Play it cool for now and see how it goes, but don't get too invested until she proves she can treat you with respect all the time, not just some of the time. Gotta look out for number one, yourself! If she keeps acting sketch, you shouldn't waste your time bro.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you look worse then your actual photos. Sorry to be so harsh. And when a girl brings a friend it's cause she's not into you

[Asker]

Maybe, i know for a fact that im not the best looking guy for her, but its the change of attitude i was thinking about , we met irl so she knows how i look in the first place

[Opinion Owner]

You don't get what I'm saying. You are uglier in person

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she felt you two don't vibe

[Asker]

Damn that actually hit me, i always think im the nice guy who helps a lot or at least be supportive and give honest opinions

[Opinion Owner]

Just because you are nice doesn't mean you deserve her vagina

[Asker]

Ok then should i block her? she's the only one i talk to irl

[Opinion Owner]

Do what you want maybe keep her as a friend or yes just block her and move on