Girls, Why do women insist on talking to guys they have been sexually involved with?

[Anonymous]

My partner has a few guys that she texts that were people she had sex or sexual acts with before we were together and acts like im not suppose to be upset that we are out for a special occasion and she is texting them while we are out but when she is out without me doesn’t respond or even read my messages and always has her phone in do not disturb mode

[SueShe]

Her behavior is a lack of respect for you, your dignity and your feelings. To fornicate with people is one thing, to keep contacting them after the relationship is over is a totally different one.

To me, it indicates that she does not take you seriously. You are probably there just for comfort and if you had a minimum of self-respect, you would not accept that behavior of hers and either tell her to go hike a kite or move out.

She is obviously misusing you but you let her do. Rather than to ask us what to do, you should act and give her an ultimatum.

[Anonymous]

She doesn’t respect you as if you’re a cuck. Sorry to say I can’t really blame her, but I mean you just watch her text other men she’s had sex with. She may also not think you two will have longevity so she’s staying connected with those men, probably even sees them when she goes out since you’re not there. It’s as if she walks all over you, my friend.

[Asker]

I don’t just watch her hence why I’m asking but thanks for being rude

[Opinion Owner]

You stand idly by while she does it, maybe complain but you will still see her when she gets home and respond immediately when she finally gets around to texting you. Sorry if you feel like facts are rude but it’s the life your living and the position your in. If you disagree then make it better for yourself.

[c4rtm4nroolz]

she’s an actual disrespectful no good woman, the audacity to do that in front of her boyfriend, & you for even allowing this behavior you definitely need to reevaluate what you want long term. If this is what she does as a girlfriend imagine as a wife, she’s just going to make you take anything she wants you to.

[Anonymous]

Some people are not as insecure as you. Get over it.