Should I go to Practice tomorrow where both the guys I am talking to are there?

[CAPLOVE]

I am talking to two guys right now Aiden and Luke. I like them both and it's going duper good with them both. I just found out that they both have practice at the same time as me tomorrow. Aidens in 3:15-5 and lukes is 5-7:30. Mine is 4:45-7.

At first I was excited because Aiden said he would hug me. But I'm scared they will find out about each other or ask why I was talking to the other. Also some people on my team dislike me and I could see them blowing this for me.

Do you think I could pull this off or should I just avoid the situation all together?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I would NOT go to that practice if I were you. That sounds like too much drama waiting to happen!

I know you wanna see both guys, but if people on your team already don't like you, the last thing you need is for Aiden and Luke to bump into each other there and start asking questions. Way too risky they'll find out about each other or cause a big scene.

If it was me, I'd tell Aiden something came up and you can't make it to his practice tomorrow. Then just steer clear of Luke's practice too so nobody spots you there. No sense stirring up unnecessary mess if you really like both guys still.

Maybe tell them you have a family thing or something low key coming up so it doesn't seem sus. Then take some time to figure out which one you actually want to pursue, without all that pressure of them being in the same place. Too much drama can ruin a good thing, ya know?

I'd avoid until you've made a decision. No use risking them both finding out now when it's so fresh! Definitely play it cool sis. Let me know what you end up doing!

[CAPLOVE]

yeah, It is too much drama. I do wanna see them both!! I don't know when to next time I will see the one is and I miss him lol. Should i tell Aiden before or after he can be like where were you? Ok, good idea about the family thing. I will. Thank you!!!

[Oliverlogan263]

ah man yeah that's tricky, I get wanting to see them both but definitely don't wanna cause drama either. Maybe you could tell Aiden something came up with your family beforehand so he's not surprised you're not there? Like say your parents needed help with something or your siblings were sick or something. That way hopefully he won't be all "where were you" about it.

And then maybe try to see the other dude Luke another time real soon so he doesn't feel like you're not into him either. Like ask him to hang out just you two after his practice sometime this week instead. Then Aiden won't be any the wiser. I'd hate for them to find out about each other ya know, might get messy! This way you avoid all that for now at least. Let me know how it goes! Fingers crossed it all works out!

[TommyMountainFigure]

It depends on how exactly you define 'talking'

Are you saying things to them you would feel uneasy about the other one knowing?

[CAPLOVE]

I mean I flirt with both of them. And Ik Aiden will hug me

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think you should behave the same as you would normally, because if you change when they see each other, they are both going to suspect you.

[CAPLOVE]

ok, thanks

[MicahRaine]

Oof that is tough. . . maybe it's time go pick someone 😅

[Z1pTD]

Maybe this is a decent idea? I'm not sure

[CAPLOVE]

hahaha, point. Except I'm waiting to go out with the one at least once

[MicahRaine]

Valid

[jahaims]

You already have to hide stuff and you aren't even in a relationship. Talk to one person at a time when you have romantic intentions. You are too young to already be acting like trash.

[dean53AU]

Go for it 😊

[CAPLOVE]

ok, how will I make it work thought? I'm scared that even if they guys don't do anything my team will ruin it

[dean53AU]

Just try ignoring anyone who tries ruining it for you.
Hopefully the boys are good about it too. Good luck

[CAPLOVE]

yeah but what if there like "look both your boyfriends are here". What do I say then?

[dean53AU]

Just smile and look away lol