Why is this girl staring at me?

[Anonymous]

Every time this girl is off her seat she stares at me and theirs nothing behind me. She ain't spacing off either. One time she was packing up and while she was she kept repeatedly starring back at me and I caught her and she kept on staring. I sometimes just see her randomly looking at me and i just see it through my peripheral vision so she doesn't know sometimes that i can see her.

Another time she was standing out of her seat once again, but i looked at my aquitance whose next to me cuz my aquitance spoke to me and i saw the girl staring right at me but she quickly turns around completely and goes to her seat. also my aquitance is a girl by the way if you wanna know. Here is seatings. also im too nervous to ask so i just wanna know what you guys think

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is weird dude. Hard to say for sure what her deal is, but a few possibilities:

- She thinks you're cute and is checking you out lowkey. Maybe she likes you!

- Trying to figure out if you noticed her looking so she can gauge if you like her back.

- Might be dare or bet with her friends to stare at you and see how long it takes you to notice.

- Could be zoned out and not even realizing she's staring, but seems intentional from what you said.

Next time you catch her, maybe give her a little smile or wave to see how she reacts. If she smiles back that's a good sign! Or you could accidentally on purpose walk by her or sit nearby to chat.

Might be worth making a move to find out what's up. Worst that can happen is she says she was just spaced out, but seems like there could be potential there too bro! Keep me posted what you find out.

[Asker]

what does “she can gauge if you like her back”mean? I should wave at her but sometimes she turns around so quickly. i wanna compliment her drawing then ask for her instagram but I don't know if asking for her socials is too much. I can’t really sit with her since it’s assigned seats but also the school year is ending soon so like i need her socials before school ends

[Oliverlogan263]

When a girl is checking you out like that, she's basically trying to see if you might be into her too before making a move. You know, like seeing if you ever look back at her or smile.

By waving or smiling when you catch her staring, that lets her know you noticed her attention. Then she can feel more comfortable actually coming over to chat. Girls love it when a guy makes the first friendly gesture.

As for complimenting her drawing and asking for Instagram, I say go for it man! Mention how you think her art is really good and was wondering if you could see more of her work on IG. That's a smooth way to bring up social media that doesn't come across too strong.

The school year does end soon, so you gotta act fast before you lose your chance. Just stay cool and confident when you talk to her. I'm sure she'll give you her @ if she's been staring that much already.

You got this dude! Show her that cute smile and get them digits. Remember, a chance not taken is a chance missed. Let me know how it goes!

[tfan1]

She’s with mad at you or she likes you. Go talk to her.

[Asker]

i want too but we got assigned seats so the convo has to be short. i wanna compliment her art since we do art class but I don't know what to say after. i also got like 4 classes left with her so i gotta be quick. should i ask for her instagram afer complimenting her art or should i ask for it on the last day

[tfan1]

Hmm you can or ask her her email address or her cell number 👍🙂