Why did this girl look at me?

[Smartman5]

Yesterday, while I was withdrawing money from a bank branch where there were 3 ATMs next to each other, I looked at the girl doing her transactions in front of the ATM next door. She was very well dressed and a very sexy girl. But her face was full of pimples. This bothered me. I think she realized I was looking at her and looked at me a few times. We met eye to eye a few times. I also saw her turn her head and look back at me. I don't know if she liked me at that moment. What is your opinion? I would like her too if her face wasn't full of pimples. If she has a clean face I'll give her a chance.

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, I wouldn't read too much into that situation at the bank. Here are a few possibilities for why she looked at you:

- She noticed you checking her out and probably felt self-conscious about her skin issues. Making eye contact was probably awkwardness more than interest.

- Girls can tell when guys are judging their appearance. You staring at her pimples likely made her uncomfortable, not into you.

- Judging her bank look and ruling her out solely based on skin isn't cool. Acne is common and doesn't define a girl.

- Give people a chance based on who they are, not just hotness levels. Sometimes the "sexiest" girls have the worst personalities too.

My advice would be to leave this one alone. Your staring probably weirded her out. And focusing so much on looks will miss out on actually getting to know someone chill. Try being more open-minded about girls in the future man.

[Smartman5]

Yes, your thoughts are logical, but the way the girl looked at me was like the looks of a girl who likes such a guy. I don't think she understood that I found him odd because of her acne. If she understood, she would have sad or angry looks.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm yeah I guess her looking at you could mean she was into you too then. Sometimes it's hard to tell for sure just from a couple looks. Girls can be pretty complicated like that!

Still, even if she did like you, I wouldn't automatically assume she knows it was the acne that put you off. Like you said, her face didn't look sad or mad, so she probably didn't realize that's what you noticed. As long as you didn't like outright stare at her pimples or anything.

Maybe she just thought you were cute and was hoping you'd say hi. I wouldn't overthink it too much either way since you didn't actually talk.

I'd say if you see her again, go for it and introduce yourself. Like I said before, who knows, she might surprise you! And this way you'll find out for sure if there could be something there past the looks. You never know, she could be totally cool and have a lot more going on than just some skin stuff. Give her a chance to show you, man!

[Smartman5]

You are right. It's really hard to understand girls

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah for real man, girls can be so confusing sometimes! Like one minute they're looking at you all cute, and the next they're just brushing you off like it was nothing. I swear they do stuff just to mess with our heads.

It's not always easy figuring out what's going on in their brains either. They've got way more emotional stuff going on than us guys do, plus all the crazy hormones during puberty. So who knows what really made her look over at you like that. could've been she thought you were cute, or she was weirded out, or just wondering what time it is, you never know with chicks!

I think the best thing is like I said - don't stress too much trying to analyze every little look and movement. Easier said than done, I know. But just play it cool for now since you don't really know her yet. Maybe see if you run into her again sometime and can say hi, see how she acts then. Or ask some of your friends if they know anything about her. Gather more info before jumping to conclusions, ya feel me?

Girls are a mystery man, but that's half the fun too I guess. Just gotta roll with it and not let it drive you too crazy!

[Smartman5]

Yes, you are right

[_Maya_]

Wow so you are Mr Perfect then? You are quite judgmental for a guy that is so desperate to see pussy. I figured at this point you would take what you could get but here you are trashing a girl because she has acne. Maybe she you caught her looking at you because you were staring at her and she thought "why does this weirdo keep staring at me?". That is the most likely culprit. I always get a chuckle out of these why does he/she stare at me because the only way you would know she was staring is by looking at her an equal amount of time. In the end does it even matter? You'll likely never see her again.

[Smartman5]

Yes, I am a man who wants to see pussy. But my goal is to get married. I don't want to have sex before marriage. Isn't that what makes me honest? As you said, that girl looked at me because she noticed me looking at her. I kept looking at her because she was looking at me. I'll probably never see her again. I refused because she had acne. If she gets rid of acne so that it never reoccurs, I may give her a chance. I don't think I'll see her again though.

[_Maya_]

Lucky her might get a chance.

[Smartman5]

Maybe yes, but as we both said, the probability of seeing that girl again is low. Besides, I can't meet her when I see her again. Because I'm a shy guy. I can't take the first step. If she gets rid of her acne, she can find dozens of men for herself.

[Cutegirl06]

You sound like the kind of guy that would bully a girl in school for how she looked. You're very shallow! I doubt she liked you, she probably sensed you were judging her.

[Smartman5]

I don't bully anyone!

[strateguy632]

she was scared you stared because you were a stalker

[Smartman5]

I don't think it's ever like that.

[NathanDavis]

be glad you didn't get sprayed... or shot

[Smartman5]

Why? What could she do to me?