Does it benefit men having the burden of taking care of women and being unappreciated for it?

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, women are a liability.
Men go out of their way to take on added unnecessary stress to take care of women who are nothing but entitled.
Imagine your life peaceful, bills paid for, and drama free, and suddenly, you get tempted and manipulated by sex and fairytale. Now you're having to share half of your earnings, home, and space with a female who feels entitled to your hard work just for a moment of pressure.

[Anonymous]

Here we go again, the man that wants to date a woman solely on how they look, and is surprised when he isn’t appreciated. Good grief.
For you, I’d say it’s a lost cause. You seem well on your way to full blown incel. That, or start dating men. You’re too far gone.

[Asker]

😂 I don't date. It costs money. It's an equal world 🌎 so if I can work hard for mine, so can women. You can't choose to be equal when it suits you and traditional when it financially benefits you. On this basis, you've made a hell of an assumption, women's looks have nothing to do with it. Heck y'all use that to trick men to sponsor your needs.

[Opinion Owner]

No, the world is not equal. Can you have a baby? No you can’t. Can a woman impregnate a man? No she can’t. Therefore, we aren’t equal. I have never in my life said I was equal to a man, nor have I acted like it.
If you don’t want to pay for women or anything of the sort, well, maybe you should try finding a woman more in your position. An attractive woman or one with even an ounce of common sense isn’t going to settle for a man who won’t pay for anything, when there are men that will. I know for me, I’ve never had a boyfriend who didn’t pay for most things we did so I wouldn’t even bat an eye at you.

[Asker]

Agh, that you can't have baby narrative b. s. it's a function y'all born with not decided by men. The whole argument is flawed.
No woman is attractive, without make up we all look the same 😆 women let make up get into their heads.
I don't owe any woman anything. y'all some entitled creatures.

[Opinion Owner]

To think women and men are equal is quite hilarious. We are not equal. We are not all born with the same equal opportunity. Just like you are not equal to all other men. You just want women and men to be equal because it suites your narrative that you shouldn’t have to provide in any way shape or form. Typical.
First of all, I don’t wear makeup and plenty of women don’t wear makeup. You’re right, you don’t owe women anything, and they don’t owe you anything either. No woman wants to be with a man who thinks they’re equal, in that case we’d date another woman, and in your case, you should probably try dating a man.

[Asker]

Haha did you just repeat what I wrote back to me. Your last response is what I've already mentioned, except for the part where you claim I want women and men to be equal. Equality isn't pushed by me, it's something your gender and the less muscline portion of men pushed for in years. Now it's finally here. We might as well make use of it in every sense. So I work you work, I pay for me, you pay for you, I make my decisions you make yours but be accouable and blame no man for your bodily functions (hormones). I like how you pushed back, though. At least you stand for your opinion. Just don't br irrational and suggest dating men, I'm a different animal, I'm about me.

[Opinion Owner]

First of all, I didn’t push for anything. I’m telling you right now, I don’t believe in gender equality, and you can not leave me to the standard of whomever pushed this narrative. And if that is the case that you will, I will in turn push you into the narrative as a sexual predator, as men have pushed themselves into statistically committing 99% of all sexual assaults. An eye for an eye.
Second, no, what will happen is I will find a man who pays for dates, there will be no you pay for you and I pay for me. I have never in my life been asked by a man to pay for a date, and it wouldn’t start for you. Good luck finding someone, because you really don’t seem like you have much to offer. You don’t provide, are quite whiny and see a woman as your equal. What exactly makes you someone I’d want to date in the first place?

[Opinion Owner]

Even in the replies, you don’t even have full support from your fellow man. Yet, you think in any way shape or form you’re important enough to implement any rule as to what women should and shouldn’t do? Not realizing the reason you are alone, miserable and feeling under appreciated is self inflicted.

[Asker]

You're a liability just like they all are. I'm not your dad to pay for you, nor will I want to date women who want sponsorship. Sex is a mutual exchange. Women are just guilty, but no man would call it because they'd be laughed at. And it's not in our nature to play the victim.
Good luck finding a sponsorship

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, like I said you’d not even have a chance with me to even worry about paying for me or not! I actually have a boyfriend and he doesn’t mind paying nor does he complain about it, probably because he’s gotten far enough in his career that he makes enough money to pay for things.
Sex is not a mutual exchange. You have nothing to offer a woman which is why one doesn’t want to be with you. This is simple. If you don’t want to provide, a woman will leave you for a man that will, and that’s what they do. You will continue to be miserable until you accept your position as a beta male and find a woman willing to put up with that. Until then, keep jerking it.

[Anonymous]

Wow, pretty cynical about women, aren't you. There are plenty of good women who value and appreciate the men in their lives, and plenty of men who are worthy of that. Your attitude is a clear indication you're not one of them.

The internet is very biased, and convinces naive people that all men and women are bad human beings. Stop being so naive. If you can do that you may be worthy of a good woman, but right now you're not, and that's your problem.

[Asker]

I speak of what and what I see. Pretending that the reality in front of my eyes is not real is naive. You've probably never been around women when they talk freely, even they'd tell you that they're entitled. And men should feel lucky to have women around. Those women you're speaking of are a rarity in this day and age, but that doesn't define the norm. The majority do

[Opinion Owner]

Your experience is very different from mine. Yes, there are women like what you describe, but there are plenty who aren't. And yes, I've been around plenty of them who speak freely.

Consider this. You are the common denominator in your experiences with women, and I am the common denominator in mine. There's an important message for you in that. Have some honesty and take it to heart, unless you just want to remain in your current miserable circumstances.

[John_Cobretti]

Make it benefit you when you get her in bed at night

[Asker]

That's not a benefit. That's a mutual exchange and just overtime unpaid work considering who makes most of the effort.

[John_Cobretti]

What you said is true only if it's a normal sex
You can just make her give a BJ and go to sleep or just end it after you orgasm
You don't have to out effort to make her cum after all the effort you put in throughout the day

[LazerBean]

Most men don't take care of their wife, so it doesn't really apply

[pinconon]

I think we should all be appreciative of one another for good deeds

[jahaims]

It's only a burden if you choose an immature partner.