Girls, Do you enjoy play wrestling with a guy?

[Anonymous]

[provokeesmokee]

My male partner and I enjoy kinky takedown play that involves a lot of wrestling. In short: yes.

[Asker]

That’s hot!! Does it ever get competitive?

[provokeesmokee]

We have win conditions, yes. Though we haven't done a lot of these scenes yet, so mostly I've been the bottom (due namely to injury - now that my foot isn't broken anymore, we'll see who wins next).

[Asker]

Oh no! Sorry to hear about your foot!

We are both pretty competitive but I’m a lot bigger than her so she has a hard time getting me. Last time I playfully gave her a titty twister lol

[provokeesmokee]

We like to end in restraints. Usually I have a crossbar and he has the cuffs at the corners of the arena and he has to wrestle me into a hogtie.

I've broken the bar before, lol.

[Asker]

That’s really hot!!! Does it end in sex?

[Asker]

When she gets frustrated she’ll try to grab my sack to get me to tap out which isn’t really fair

[provokeesmokee]

Pft unless you made rules against it, it's fair. Don't be a pussy. You don't get to fight her without letting her fight you back - otherwise that ain't wrestling.

And yeah, it usually does.

[Asker]

Ours usually ends in sex too, that’s why it’s so fun!

We didn’t specifically make rules against it, but obviously no kicking or punching or stuff that would hurt the other person too much. I just feel like it’s a bit dirty you know?

[provokeesmokee]

Do you finger her as a move you do? Because same shit, bucko. But if you aren't comfy with it, speak up now and have a convo about what you two need to make rules around.

Safety and consent are key to the best kinky play you'll have. Also the best way to keep having that kind of fun - hard to have kinky sex with your loved one if either of you are hurt, dead, or in jail.

[Asker]

No I don’t finger her as a move, I’ve done playful titty twisters but not hard or anything.

Isn’t that much different than grabbing the sack?

[provokeesmokee]

Depends, some guys love CBT and squeezing can feel pleasurable in the right mood. But it is dangerous so doing so while wrestling isn't smart - especially if either of you want kids with the other.

You gotta protect yourself, bud. Speak up - your girlfriend can't read your mind and sounds like she doesn't understand how it feels for you. So speak up and make yourself heard.

[Asker]

I do want kids some day.

I think it’s also embarrassing because I don’t want her to think I’m not tough or manly because I can’t handle a squeeze without tapping out

[provokeesmokee]

Bruh.

Search up testicular torsion and crushing.

Wanting to avoid permanent injury is smart, not weak. Ffs, man.

[Asker]

I know it can be serious but she jokes that all it takes is a light squeeze to bring me down, and that makes me appear less strong

[provokeesmokee]

You're allowed to have limits.

And if she wants to use CBT then it is her responsibility as the top in that situation to learn to do it safely.

Especially if you both want kids.

[Asker]

Have you ever used a squeeze to win at wrestling?

[provokeesmokee]

No, our wrestling is more actual grappling than that. Also we like to go hard when we do our stuff so it would be too dangerous to do that during the fight.

[Asker]

Do women generally understand that even a light squeeze can be really painful?

[provokeesmokee]

I don't know, I don't tend to associate with vanilla or mainstream folks.

[Asker]

I get a little embarrassed when I get hit there because it’s my manliest area yet even a light hit is debilitating

[provokeesmokee]

Well, maybe you like humiliation play given how fixated you are on it.

Can you move on?

[Asker]

No I mean that’s why I wish she would avoid it but she thinks it’s fair

[provokeesmokee]

Stop being a weak baby and set your boundaries then. Don't tolerate abuse just because a girlfriend is the source of it. Ffs.

Why are boys so fucking whiney and useless. Y'all need to grow some ovaries, ffs. 🙄

[Asker]

Haha that is fair!

I made the mistake of taunting her when I was squeezing her boobs and she grabbed my sack and squeezed hard