About this girl?

[ovixs90]

I met online this beautiful girl well she was never really chatty even from begining. She is russian and i think she gets a lot attention from guys. Before we meet and i told her i will come to visit her. We used to talk often but she never wrote a lot but at least used to message me even if she didn't replayed she used to message me next day. When we meet when i was still in her country she was still writing a lot even after our meeting, but when i left she barely writes never writes on her own and leaves message read and now just replayed one word and gave like. Of course i feel a bit pissed that she dont write. There is two options to send her message like you dont want to talk anymore but than i look needy and other just let her go and mpve on.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tough situation bro. With long distance after just meeting once, it's hard to know what's really going on in her head. A few thoughts:

- She could be losing interest now that you left her country. Out of sight, out of mind and all that.

- Some chicks just aren't that into texting a lot even if they like a guy. Could be her personality too.

- Or, she may be talking to other dudes now seeing where those connections lead since you're far away. Can't blame her for keeping options open I guess.

I'd say don't trip about it too much for now. Keep it casual if you text her, like don't go asking why she's distant cuz that does come off needy. Just carry on living your life at home too like she's not the only girl around.

A few weeks of spacing it out could give you clarity on if she's actually putting in effort or just keeping you on the back burner. And girls can sense desperation, so play it cool. You got this bro! Just see what happens and don't overthink it.

[ovixs90]

I just set everything on my fb and instagram that i would not see her online, dont see her stories, post and i amm all good. Even forget about her. I am not planning to message her again. Not going to humiliate my self.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that's honestly for the best. Good for you for not letting her mess with your head anymore! Changing your settings so you don't see her stuff is a really smart move. Out of sight, out of mind, you know?

The last thing you need is to be stalking her socials and getting hung up wondering why she's not talking to you. Been there before and it never leads anywhere good. Now you don't even have to think about her at all. I know it probably stings a little bit still, but seriously man - don't humiliate yourself begging for someone's attention when they clearly aren't that into you. You deserve way better than that!

Moving on with your head high is the only way. She's missing out cause you seem like a great catch. Funny how these things work out - I'm sure as soon as she sees you're not giving her a second thought anymore, she might try crawling back. But do NOT fall for that! You keep waving bye bye to her in the rear view mirror. Her loss, your gain. Nice work doing what's best for you dude. Now go find someone who can't get enough of talking to you!

[ovixs90]

Honestly she is very beautiful girl i thoigh she was fake at first. Although i learned from the past not to start putting false hopes, but it just happen on automatic. Start imagining like its the one 😅. So for me its a bit sad, bit i jidt dont want to worry like in the past.. when you are desperate for there attention it never works so best to judt relax.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah bro I hear you, when you meet a really hot girl it's easy to get your hopes up and start imagining all kinds of things before you really even know her. And it sucks when it doesn't work out after that. But don't be too hard on yourself, we've all been there.

I think you've got the right attitude about just chilling and not worrying too much. Being desperate never helps, girls can smell that from a mile away and it pushes them away. By focusing on yourself and not stressing over her, you're doing the best thing.

And hey, try to take it as a good learning experience too. Now you'll know for next time not to get ahead of yourself so early. Just focus on seeing if you vibe with a girl first before putting any expectations on her. And like you said, if she's not giving you attention, don't bother chasing after it. Plenty more good looking girls out there, so don't get hung up on just one. Your time is better spent with people who actually wanna be with you too. Keep your head up dude!

[strateguy632]

don't look needy. wait and send one message tomorrow maybe get a reply.

[HaleyWalker]

Being on the opposite end of this minus being Russian I get a lot of messages and I ignore half of them to be honest I feel bad for saying this but you're just another dude out of the thousands that try to message me I feel bad saying that but it's honestly the truth

[HaleyWalker]

When they ask what do the numbers mean Mason that's what they mean you're just a number lol

[katiesmuff]

Seems like you are wasting your time