Men, what's one thing about women that bothers/annoys you?

[bobby_bush_eater]

Hoping for male answers but would still like to see some female rebuttals so it's going to be open to both sides.

[DrPepper12]

That women using looks, charm, seductiveness to get their way is accepted even admired but if men do it they're creepy, manipulative and dangerous. It's just bullshit.

[Crimsyjo]

Oh I don't know. Charm is very acceptable from a man. Its just if they think they are being charming but are not that it's creepy lol

[Serkee]

@Crimsyjo Things like that are really frustrating to hear. If a guy is a creep just because he isn't charismatic, what's he supposed to do then? Just give up and resign to being alone for the rest of his life? "Just don't be a creep" doesn't mean anything if just attempting and failing to be charming is creepy.

[Crimsyjo]

@Serkee I think maybe just learn from mistakes. And try to read women better. So if they are interested in you then they will like your charm. If they are not? They will be put off. So don't try charming every woman. Maybe. It's hard. I know.

[Serkee]

@Crimsyjo My issue is the opposite of that. I don't try charming any women at all. I'm afraid to, because I don't want to come off as a creep.

[Serkee]

Their expectation for you to read their minds or understand subtle signals when they want something. Please, I'm as dense as a brick, just tell me.

[Crimsyjo]

Haha my ex boyfriend was more dense than a brick. I literally told him exactly what I needed and he still didn't get it 😄

[ProbablyClueless]

The constant double speak... all the plausible deniability. The lack of communication. The hidden agendas. The way things seem to radically change at the flip of a coin. Honestly, it's terrifying. You never have any idea if the person you're talking to is just gathering ammunition.

I generally have a great relationship with women, but I get reaaaaaaaaaally tired of the fact that I basically can't trust their intentions and the things they say and do. It's not even clever social finessing, it's just fucking someone over out of the blue. Women do that kind of thing A LOT.

[Anonymous]

The fakeness. I can deal with everything but that. When I realize she's fake I don't even want anything to do with her anymore. Because if you can't even be genuine I don't want to k own you. And so many women are just playing a role of whatever they think you want to get whatever desired result they're trying to get out of you. It's pathetic.

[meepmeeperton]

I would say they tend to believe they are emotionally intelligent, but actually have poor emotional regulation. They don’t know the difference.

[JonCobretti]

Lack of accountability and constantly complaining

And.. of course! Everything about feminists is annoying and stinky

[ananias55]

When I open up and they use what I said against me in an argument.
I learned that if they do that once, never EVER, open up to her again.

[Crimsyjo]

Awwwww *hugs*

[TopShelfMan]

Hypocritical and unfair behavior in all areas of life. (Workplace, relationships, as parents or as kids, etc.)

[LiamJHayden]

About women in general, nothing. About specific ones, I could write a book.

[Crimsyjo]

😊🥰 good answer

[jahaims]

They don't share universal personalities just because they share a gender. Any annoying thing a female does a male does and vice versa.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Alright Mr buzz kill it's a generalization thing. Women generally behave and act more similar to each other than men are...

I also asked the same question to women.

[jahaims]

You're a moron

[Serkee]

Universal personalities? No. General tendencies? Absolutely. Men do too.

[OtterMan68]

not taking the initiative in dating: asking men out, approaching men in social situations, etc and expecting men to take all the risks

[MK1997]

@OtterMan68 missed you

[paledreams]

@OtterMan68 it's so true - women don't wanna be direct or just come out and say it - even dropping a blunt hint like, if they wanna be asked out, glancing and staring ain't enough lol 😆 for a guy to think 'is this chick mental or is she into me" lol 😂😆

[DrPepper12]

@paledreams excellent observation on the unassertive mixed signals!

[BetaBucks]

Lying or acting like a dude and both super annoying.

[clubboss]

Their constant whining about knowing what you try to hold on to for a later time.

[Anonymous]

sometimes i cannot translate the literature in my language into English; sometimes misunderstood