What is the one thing women get wrong about men which absolutely annoys you?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Men only care about sex  is one. Sure there are guys out there that only care about it, but for many of us, there are things that matter more like similar views, interests, sense of humor, if our goals align, etc. That becomes more of a relationship where you can genuinely enjoy your time with your partner, rather than only seeing a relationship as a partnership for sex.  Men that look at women are creeps  is another one. Women always seem to hate men looking at them in any way, especially if the man is not to their taste, even if they're wearing extremely provocative clothes. Many men nowadays are afraid to even look in woman's direction in fear of being labeled a creep.  And all the double standards aren't fair either.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I had a few things in mind but everyone else here beat me to them for once
(I’m impressed)

Maybe I’ll add:
I hate when whem assume that the “patriarchy” is some secret boys club they’re not invited to

Like when I apply for a job the recruiter will look over his shoulder and whisper “here’s a bit more money to give you a wage gap to the women”

If anything men get shafted in society because the powers that be often try to improve their public image by favoring women

I have many women colleagues who got way more generous offers and raises even though they did the same work as the guys, nothing significantly different

AviatorTom · Answer

That women believe that all we guys care about is sex. Granted, we do think about sex a lot, but there are many other things that we think about too, important things.

Sunrising · Answer

You females have a high regard for yourselves, you females have not one thing that annoys us, but loads of things!

1. Turning down a date. 2. Refusing our advances. 3. Not doing what we tell you to do. 4. Turning up late for a date. 5. Not turnings up at all for a date at all. 6. Making excuses for not going on a date. 7. Parking a car, takes too long. 8. Thinking they can do things better than us. 9. Spending too much time with Mum. 10. Not listening to what we say. 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

They all say, "All men are the same!" when that's nowhere NEAR true!! So, one guy fucks them over and they think ALL of us are like that but, they WON'T take a chance on nice guys but will run right out and jump onto the next flaming asshole they see then, when she drops him, or vice versa, she goes on her, "All men are the same!" rant, again!! NO bitch, all the men you're stupid enough to fall for are the same because you REFUSE to give the nice guys a chance to show you that we're NOT all the same!!!

Anonymous · Answer

“Boys don’t cry” and pushing that sentiment onto other guys.

Men have emotions and are allowed to express that emotion, don’t buy into toxicity.

Speaking from experience that a minority of women and men stand by this notion. It is really pathetic and does more harm than good.

Again, a minority believe and push this. Though it pisses me off since it makes men believe they can’t be open about relationships, struggles, abuse, trauma, etc. We need to be more compassionate to men.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Annoys me? I guess I could find many stereotypes if I spent more time listening to stereotypical views coming from women, but luckily I don't, so I'm shielded from that annoyance.

I wish I'd be more shielded from stereotypical views coming from men though 😂

Tarifa · Answer

That men have less emotions than women do, just because we don’t feel the need to talk about them. We are very emotional within, but don't always let that get to the surface.

Part of that is due to the fact that we are told as boys that we need to be strong and never cry. Part of it is due to the fact that we are expected to take on a leading role.

It takes a lot for most of us to open up to a girl. That is true within relationships and beyond.

Grond21 · Answer

It annoys me how many women think that men objecting to any facet of their behavior stems from insecurity. Thank God this is not universal, otherwise women would be insufferable in general. Instead, it seems located in a smaller percent of the population that is deeply entrenched in the hookup culture and ideologically possessed by the worst parts of feminism.

Anonymous · Answer

That men don't cry nearly as much as women only because we suppress our emotions. The fact is, men are not wired the way women are. I couldn't cry like my girlfriend does if you paid me $ million to do it. Like most men, it's just not in my makeup.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women I see that come on here have no idea what makes a quality man. So they repeat the same failed mistakes. a lot of women are so concerned with finding g a HV man when the only that really matters when choosing a man is CHARACTER. If you choose a man with character than everything else will fall into place.

I feel a little bad for some of these women. Because a lot of them will never find happiness. And what's tragic is they'll never understand why.

Shiprex · Answer

That men are inherently threatening or a risk when most of us are the  complete  opposite. We're  LOOKING  to step in and help out but currently it's better to avoid engaging for fear of backlash.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Listen, honey, I can fix a lot of things but just because I DONT WANT TO fix your particular problem and I only diagnosed it in your house or car you don't need to be an ass about it.

WonderingManII · Answer

Some of them think men don't have feelings that can get hurt by them.

Still-alive · Answer

When we get boners its not necessarily because we are turned on so don't be grossed or weirded out if you ever somehow see a dudes bulge lol. it just happens sometimes

BDRick · Answer

Women group Men together. For example, women say that all men cheat and/or All men only think about see. False: Everyone has estrogen and testosterone at different levels

loveslongnails · Answer

They think men should think like they do about almost all things, so the "one thing" encompasses "everything".

AndrésC64 · Answer

That everything is a bed of roses or a pleasure cruise.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Women forget we men remain boys at ANY age !!!

Anonymous · Answer

- They think that every man can repair stuff... I can't repair anything, I'm not very technical.

- They think that men only thing about sex.

- They think that most men are good only for physical labour.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

... to think that we need driving instructions from a passenger? :D

jahaims · Answer

The same thing a lot of guys do too. Oh this gender did blah blah blah to me so now they are all bad.

Godihateyou · Answer

That we can be saved. Lol. I've ruined so many good hearted women.

Anonymous · Answer

That we are privileged by virtue of being male.

dudeinohio · Answer

That you think you can change a guy.

slatyb · Answer

That we're like their father.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

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