I think the main thing is to be comfortable with yourself and be fine with either outcome like if a girl likes you or not you should be able to live a good life find happiness and contentment. Once you get to that point it'll be a lot easier because you will be more relaxed and less stressed out. At the moment you're overthinking this way too much. And you're judging yourself harshly that will only make you more insecure. Dating as a young man is extremely difficult that's just how it is. Just accept it and focus on your life instead of chasing after girls. Even if a girl accepts you, you'll always be in a shit position in this relationship because you're chasing after her and she has all the power in the relationship. You'll just be used and abused. So build yourself up and stop thinking about your jaw and your nose.
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Trust me I'm contempt with, what I possess/items etc. I don't fully grasp why you think speaking about your strength & weakness as a person means you feel insecure.
What socialising games in the real world do you do, what socialising with friends do you do? No one really gives a toss about the stuff in the box, people with one leg get dates. Itâs far more about your social interaction skills, than simply looking good. ideally you should be able to comfortably talk with girls, not hitting on them or talking to them, just general chatting. You say you are into Psychology, what would you say if someone came to you with that positive and negative list?
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Personally I wouldn't care but Ik everyone else seems to care about strengths/flaws within someone. I came to realize even the smallest errors, are enough to make someone not want you in life. I don't have friends because I realized after leaving college almost 6 years ago that most people are fake & I don't want fake people in my life.
People are not fake, people have flaws are all different, it can take time and effort to find friends, however being able to socialise with people really beats looks. Take a walk outside into the real world, you will see loads of various types dating, married, none of those have a positive negative thing.
Real people are a rare breed. I work in the public sector. 4 types I see athletic/strong physically , junkies/fuck boys , LGBT , & đ¤the rich with women. I don't see any other types together.
Hey my dude, here's what you gotta know about women: A 10/10 guy is a guy that stands out.
-Timothee Chalamet is scrawny -Harry Styles has odd facial features -Tom Holland doesn't have hunter eyes -Pete Davidson has big lips -Adam Driver has a long face And yet we adore them?
I mean, there are very few traditionally attractive men that women drool over (eg Henry Cavill and Chris Hemsworth), in general we prefer men who have some "unappealing" features. We don't really care for the chiselled chad persona, there's a million of them. There's only one Harry Styles. So, don't worry. We do not care about these flaws. If anything we prefer them 😭
Dude, calm down. Do not go through every detail of your face looking for âflawsâ. Women are not robots. We do not measure the length of your facial features. Some of these âflawsâ plenty of women will find attractive. I do not care how deep set a manâs eyes are, and I like hooked noses. Your lack of success with women is likely due to confidence and the wrong approach. If youâd like some individual help you can message me.
You seem to be very focused on your appearance. I don't even know what most of those things on the list mean.
Best advice I can think of is that you are so young and overthinking things. I would enjoy my life, keep an active social life if you are interested in meeting someone, and when the time comes it will happen. I would not focus on my shortcomings and wondering why no one is interested. That alone can cause people not to be interested. Be the best person you can be. Someone will recognize that at some point.
Itâs not attracting me if youâre not good at connecting with me even with all of that⌠Iâve talked to someone like that recently and we were supposed to go on a date, but at the end I decided to not to anymore despite the good looks and many things he does when heâs not really good at building a connection or engage in a good conversation. Work on your interpersonal skills and how to develop a connection. Goodluck :)
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