Girls, what do us guys’ do that piss you off and get you irritated?

[Finchie40]

[Idontknow76]

Stepping over boundaries, bragging about personal possessions, bad hygiene, arrogance, hypocrisy, only expecting to receive and never giving something in return, getting easily irritated, self absorbed and I really like things to be equal in any type of relationship that I’m having because if someone is doing something for me I view that as debt so I will automatically try and do something back because I want fairness so if I see that I keep doing things without receiving anything in return ( example I cook for you make me a damn coffee ) I see is like I’m being taken advantage of and lose interest completely

[Dongie]

You described the exact opposite of me. I'm not shittin' u.

[DishLady]

You really don't want the full list, I think... I'll do the top three to be kind:

• "Trifling" (guys who waste a woman's time and resources)
• Toxic (gaslighting, controlling, blah blah blah)
• Rude (a guy whose mama didn't raise him right needs to keep walking; a lady wants a gentleman)

[DarkLegacy]

Why does it matter. Men should not have to change their behaviour to avoid offending and upsetting women. These days women nit pick, are petty, are snowflakes and sexist.

[sawno]

I'm sure all girls are sick of the dick pics in their DM's.

[Crimsyjo]

Ohhh... so much haha!

Being too stubbon to understand other points of views.

Not listening or communicating.

Being on phone all the time or watching sport all the time. Never making at least some time one on one for you.

Being lazy.

Saying too many sexist or misogynistic remarks even if jokingly.

Hogging all the tv and music choices!

Haha... I was just listing from my recent ex 😄

[Finchie40]

He sounds like a normal guy lol

[Crimsyjo]

Yh I know 😄
Those things some of the time is OK if balanced with more loving good bits. If it's all the time then nahhh... I'd rather be single.

[Baublebar234]

Not following their actions with their word. “A plan/talk without an action” type of man turns me off completely. As well as unable to naturally lead in a relationship.

[Apple1996]

Men in general just lack empathy. It annoys the fuck out of me but I know it's a failure from society and parenting so I don't blame men directly for it. Even tho I wished more adult men would work on it

[idonotlikeyou]

Guys are selfish, focused only on themselves, and unable to talk about emotions. On top of that, they act inconsistently, say one thing and do another, and have a high opinion of themselves. Generally, guys are overrated.

[Nikki1989]

Rape, verbal and physical abuse, poor communication skills. lack of emotion, constant lying.

[HelpfulWoman]

a gender neutral one. Say they'll do something and then NOT doing it

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s definitely a common one as well , and again that more than likely stems down to having different brains from each other , Girls’ brains are wired differently from guys’ brains , A girl’s brain is flooded with so much stuff at one time , when a guys’ brain isn’t , I read a whole article on this. so that’s primarily the reason this occurs in relationships. A guy can let things go and put it aside , a girl can not let it go , she needs whatever she feels needs done on her watch. If he doesn’t beat her to it? He is in the doghouse lol

[Caroline91]

Not listening. But, of course, a blanket statement is never completely true.. lol

[Finchie40]

Yea listening I can see being up there for girls , that mainly stems down to having different brains from each other , A girls’ brain is wired different from a guys’ I read a whole article on the differences between guys’ and girls’ brains , A girl basically has 1000 things going through her head at once , when a guys’ brain doesn’t even compare to how much is going through his head at once lol so that’s probably why listening is harder for most guys. I use to get bitched at all the time for not listening , I didn’t intentionally do it on purpose , I was just focused on something else when she would ask me a question and I would be like ummmm yea that’s cool , not really knowing what she said to me lol I also had girls’ get mad at me if i say , What did you say? Like I was supposed to wait for her to speak to me on her watch. So yes listening is definitely up there lol

[Caroline91]

@Finchie40 i never get mad if he asks me “What did you say?” I put my arms around his neck, give him a big wet kiss and tell him what I said. I consider that progress! Lol And I know I’ve got his attention and he’s listening.

[Finchie40]

That sounds like progress to me , I wish all girls’ thought that way to be honest lol I usually hear girls’ bitching all the time that her man doesn’t listen to her , all he cares about is himself? Giving herself a reason to bitch and complain when he more than likely didn’t do it on purpose he was just focused on something else at that time. It happens a lot lol

[Caroline91]

It does and women need to learn how to get a man’s attention if they want to be heard. It’s often not effective to be subtle. When I grab my man’s face, he knows I mean business…as soon as we both stop laughing!

[handsomelad70]

Maybe I should be "Cowgirl" instead of "Cowboy" because I have a lot of things going through my head. Then again, with a 160+ IQ...

[Finchie40]

It still doesn’t match a girls’ brain bro lol

[GeminiDiamond]

For me it's irritating when he puts his needs above our needs.

[Finchie40]

Ok, that also stems down to a guys’ brain compared to a girls’ brain, Read my other answers , I don’t have time to explain lol

[GeminiDiamond]

I meant ours like his and mine, together. When people stop caring, they stop caring.

[Finchie40]

That isn’t good , I’m sorry to hear that

[KrakenAttackin]

Looks like the women posting below need to get back to the kitchen.😂😂😂

[Apple1996]

@KrakenAttackin posting this from my kitchen

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996 That's my girl 😁😁

[Apple1996]

Update: still in the kitchen 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996 Nice!

[sage2021]

Lying, 🤥 definitely lying to us.

[Billlewis]

Excellent question.

[sirderpsalot123]

Here for the comments

[NathanDavis]

bad shit

[OddBeMe]

Can I already tell this will be rough for me…

[LordMadara]

🖕🏽 women