She watches all my stories but when I DM her she doesn’t reply?

[Anonymous]

she’s a girl from the gym I got tired of playing eye spy with & went up to her & got her Instagram after sometime having small talk with her, but after that it’s been weird, every time we see each other she’s always tell me do you have a life your always in the gym? I replied with this is life lol she laughs & walks away. Second I feel like she playing hard to get or just isn't interested she sometimes the first to view my instagram story’s and as of yet hasn't missed one. My question is it out of boredom or is she playing the I need excitement in my life game so I can hit her with the what’s up my boy (fist pump) greeting lmaooo

[Oliverlogan263]

it's kinda hard to say man, girls can be confusing sometimes. On one hand she watches all your stories so she's definitely peeking at what you're up to. But the fact that she doesn't reply when you DM is a weird mixed signal.

A few things it could be - she might just be bored and checking social media all the time without meaning anything by it. Or she could be curious about you but not totally ready to engage yet. Playing "hard to get" is also a classic girl move Sometimes they wanna make you work for it a little.

Personally I'd refrain from hitting her with the "my boy" fist pump greeting - that could come across too strong since you're not really boys yet, you know? My advice would be to keep the interactions light when you see her at the gym. Comment on her progress or workout, make her laugh. Ease into actual conversation more before asking for her number.

Then maybe try DMing her something more open-ended than just "what's up" - like asking her opinion on a new playlist you're making or something related to the gym. That gives her an easy "in" to reply without much commitment. Just take it slow and feel the situation out. Don't overthink the social media stuff too much. Good luck man!

[PeachyPie93]

Watching stories really doesn't mean anything at all, since everyone you follow has a story and it goes to the top. I go through everyone's story at the same time some I click and skip some I just watch through not actually even caring what it is, but they all say watched. If I was you I would just ask her out if she is weird about answering or says no then move on and stop wasting your time on someone like that.

[MinnieMousse]

As hard as it is to say, she’s not interested in you because she hasn’t made any effort into making a move or letting you know. I think it’s time to move on.

[Nikki1989]

It is so pathetic and sad that people think social media and this watching story crap actually counts for something. It is even worse when it is someone over the age of 16.

[Jason2469]

Stop spending your life watching someone that doesn't care about you

[Anonymous]

Why don’t you just ask her out?

[Asker]

Never crossed my mind. she confuses the fuck out of me. At this point I got nothing to loose your right. Thanks

[Asker]

She also does not give me any signs she want to go out or get to know me.. that’s why I think it never crossed my mind..

[Opinion Owner]

Most women aren’t gonna give you all these outward signs of interest or build your confidence in asking them out. My biggest advice is to be intentional with women you are interested in and don’t fall into playing silly little games. If you like her, make a move and it’s either gonna work out or it’s not, but you don’t have to wait around for her to do something, and take the lead yourself. Also, no problem!