Do girls really like nice guys who actually care about them or are they just fooling themselves?

[D_D_D]

Do you girls really prefer a nice guy or do you just say it to get'em as friends while you're banging the so called "bad boy" who treats you like shit and doesn't really give a fuck about you, just so you could complain about all guys being a bunch of dicks when you're older and screwed up every chance you had with all the good guys who could treat you like a queen? (Sorry if someone is hurt by this, I honestly just ask to understand this phenomenon from a girl's point of view and not to offend anyone^_^)

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by the way.. I think my XP is too low to reply so my apologies lol😅

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(Myself never had that problem thank God but I've seen too many people that I care about who went through similar thing and it crushed them, so just wanted to hear from various personal female opinions what do you think about this)

[DishLady]

Some guys think of themselves as “nice guys” but are just “wet blanket” (no personality) type guys who whine about being alone…. No one talks about this category bc these guys are hiding under the “nice guy” banner and complaining nonstop, but in reality they’re not particularly nice or noticeable to others (guys or girls) at all…


Yes, LADIES genuinely enjoy the company of GOOD MEN. Girls go for the bad boys bc they don’t know any better. “Nice” guys who have no personality and don’t do anything to impact the world… do finish last bc they don’t put themselves out there.

[D_D_D]

Yeah by nice guys I mean genuinely good guys who care about people and not just as an act to get with girls

[DishLady]

Ok. :)

[CindyRuns]

Bad Boys get boring quick !!!

Nothing better than being with a nice, high quality guy for the long haul.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, being nice doesn’t make anyone special, because anybody can be nice. Even bad boys can be nice until they aren’t. That’s usually what happens in a lot of cases, a guy puts on a “nice” facade to win the girl over, and then drops the act once he’s got her. If she’s insecure, she’ll do whatever she can to fix things so that he’ll go back to the guy he was in the beginning. Except that he never truly was that guy.
Women DO want good men. Being nice doesn’t automatically equal being good. If the only reason a man is being nice to a woman is to get with her, then he’s not a good man, and most women are not going to fall for that. People should be nice because it’s what’s right not because there is something to gain.

[Billlewis]

Of course women appreciate nice, sweet attentive guys who work feverishly to make rthem happy every minute of the day, but ultimately, most women prefer a less polite guy with whom to date, mate and then meticulously relate the fact that the nice guy still hasn't consummated his desire for her.

[ProbablyClueless]

The emotionally healthy ones do. Most women aren't emotionally healthy though.

When an unhealthy woman approaches men, she approaching them from a place of fear and doubt because of her experiences. Encountering a guy who treats her well is too foreign for her to know what to do with.

[BarryLiverstone]

You just asked about 3 things: nice, good, and bad. What’s an example of how each guy acts?

[BarryLiverstone]

While you can’t send direct messages, you can reply to these answers

[D_D_D]

Yeah I just realized it's a problem with the app so I logged in on chrome.. thanks 🙏

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome

[D_D_D]

Regarding this.. I meant genuinely good guys not just shitty guys who act nice to get with girls

[BonzoInBitburg]

Nice guys are boring because they try to please everyone
Bad boys are exciting for a short time
Good men are confident, interesting and reliable

[LazerBean]

Well yeah, good men thrive in the dating world unless they have poor hygiene or bad social skills.