Why did she do this?

[Anonymous]

Why did she start talking about another man's shoulders/muscles, in front of a guy she claims she "likes". What's her deal there

[Oliverlogan263]

That's super disrespectful of her man. Like who just talks about how hot another dude is right in front of the guy she says she likes? What a lame move.

My guess is one of a few things is going on:

1. She's not really that into the guy and is keeping him as an option while she checks out other dudes. Like she wants attention from him but doesn't really care about his feelings.

2. She has no filter and wasn't thinking how it would make him feel to hear that. But still, how do you not realize that's messed up?

3. She's playing games and wants to make him jealous or question if she's really into him. Which is immature and dumb.

4. Deep down she might actually be more into muscles dude than the guy she's with. But is keeping the other guy on the backburner.

Whatever her deal is, it shows she doesn't really respect his feelings. I'd be pissed too if a girl I liked did that to me. He deserves better than being disrespected and made to feel like second choice all the time.

[menina]

I guess she was trying to make him jealous. She wanted to see his reaction. She wants to see if he likes her.

[DishLady]

Who is "SHE" to you? And there are two other guys besides you involved in this (very unclear) little scenario? Post a clearly worded update or something.