How many people actually prefer a dark feminine woman over a soft feminine woman?

[KittygosMeoWW]

[Anonymous]

Look. I don’t look for the same things a lot of men look for and many men are missing out on amazing women.

Men look for pretty girls. They look on the outside.

I look for women who are loyal, honest, good communicators, companions, a best friend, and someone I deeply love. Yes, some women pretend to be someone they’re not but I’m good at sniffing them out.

A lot of men are in one sided relationships, cheated on, etc. Because they don’t know how to judge a woman’s character.

[Opinion Owner]

Women who are so soft they can’t wipe their own ass aren’t typically very good partners

[Caroline91]

This is wonderful! You got it exactly right! Character is everything. Both in women and men. However, people tend to confuse character with personality... and there IS a difference.

[Opinion Owner]

@Caroline91 there’s a difference but both are important. And it matters for both sexes. There will be a day where both people are old and aren’t as beautiful/handsome as they are right now

[Opinion Owner]

@Caroline91 also peoppe looking for materialistic. Look. If people pick materialistic people. If something happens to you and you’re not able to provide that anymore.

They will leave you for dead.

[Caroline91]

I agree both are important, however, I would say character is the more important bc that goes to the core of who someone really is. But personality plays a large part in attraction and so is very important, too.

[Opinion Owner]

@Caroline91 I agree and people can pretend to be someone they’re not. But character shows at sone point or another.

[Opinion Owner]

@Caroline91 some refuse to see it though

[Caroline91]

Well, I think we often project onto other people and see what we want to see.

[Opinion Owner]

@Caroline91 that’s the truth. Good people see the best in others. Bad people think they need to get you before you get them

[Berethor]

Dark feminine is interesting but less likely to be a virgin, that's a problem.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Light_Feminine_and_Dark_Feminine

[KittygosMeoWW]

Oh boy ew!

[Summeroflove]

What’s gross about a virgin? Virgins haven’t had sex before so they’re more pure. Bur dudes who refuses to be virgins themselves and fuck whores. Will never get that type of woman

[Summeroflove]

They’ll get sone soft girl who can’t wipe her own ass. While she gets her cheeks clapped while he’s at work. That’s what these dudes get

[Summeroflove]

Anyone grossed out by a virgin is probably a degenerate whore whose disgusted by herself.

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Summeroflove calm down lmao damn, I meant it’s gross for men to determine whether a woman is attractive based on if she’s a virgin.

[Summeroflove]

I think it’s completely reasonable to determine that. Nobody is perfect…. Okay. But at the same time. If a man’s saving himself for someone it’s completely reasonable to want someone witn the same values and vice versa

[Summeroflove]

I don’t want someone whose slept around a lot. I’m sorry that’s just gross…. Someone who hasn’t slept around a lot whose a woman probably also thinks men who do this are gross.

[kylee2437]

I think it just depends on when you use both for men personally.

[Alli112]

Literally never heard these terms used before 🤷‍♀️

[MisterWack]

I looked up dark…. I prefer soft.

[SixFootSexy]

Men don't need (or typically want) dark traits in women.

Women desire men who have dark traits if they use them to benefit her. That's the difference in attraction there. If a man prefers dark women it shows a lack of wisdom.

[Pegases]

Dark feminine women are essentially just manipulative in a nutshell. And they are most often manipulative because they've had lots of experience with other men. The problem in my opinion with dark feminine women, is that they are less trustworthy. I prefer soft any day.

[ProbablyClueless]

The entire point of the dark feminine is that it isn't healthy or good to be around. The dark feminine and masculine are about domination and control.

[RyanR03]

No. It’s a trap that leads to a dark pit. Darkness is romanticized in society. I won’t delve deeper into why I think that is. But if you talk to enough people who have lived with a darker personality, it almost never ends well and certainly is it actually romantic.

[MrCharlie13]

Depends on your own character. Some guys like a kind hearted sweet innocent girl as a partner, others orefere a more dominant, bratty, twisted girl as a partner

[NathanDavis]

not sure what these mean... lol

[KittygosMeoWW]

Cute soft girly or dark siren looking girly.

[NathanDavis]

which one is she?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Dark feminine

[KittygosMeoWW]

Alexa Demi is 👌 gorgeous

[NathanDavis]

absolutely agree with it

[imfreeze95]

My first crush was Wednesday Addams make of that what you will. Now that I’m older I have a crush on Morticia Addams.

[Likes2drive]

Rather soft feminine than dark, she might be sadistic than I can handle

[nawtee_me]

Use the force Luke…. I can go to the dark side now and then….

[FunkyMonkee]

As far as I know, soft is not the opposite of dark.

[KittygosMeoWW]

It’s a style again you’re 57 doubt you’d know what I’m talking about Ty move along

[FunkyMonkee]

You're only 29, you kiddies make up your own rules because you can't understand the real ones and don't know what YOU'RE talking about! Get lost!!

[RavVid]

I have to assume a dark feminine woman is opposite to a soft feminine woman but how is dark contrasting with soft?

[Yannae]

May you enlighten me on the difference between these two? Or the definition rather?

[KittygosMeoWW]

You can enlighten yourself with the internet just like you got to this website bud

[Yannae]

Then probably soft

[KrakenAttackin]

"Dark feminine"? You mean a psychopathic, neurotic, ball of psychosis? No thanks.

[DannyUk2017]

Depends of the Mood!

[ChicoFromThe305]

It can go either way for me

[Sasquach]

I think there's a time and place for both

[smahala1991]

honestly I like both

[worldscolide]

Context would be helpful, what's the difference?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Cute girl or dark siren type from style to makeup

[worldscolide]

Oh hell dark, succubus level even.

[Anonymous]

I like my women like I like my coffee.

[Staximus]

Do they speak English in What?

[Staximus]

Dark is a shade of color and soft is a texture. Please speak the language correctly and clearly for best results

[Staximus]

And effective communication

[KittygosMeoWW]

Trust me I can communicate, speak English/Spanish, and sign efficiently. I am referring to styles, lol I’m not surprised you don’t know what I’m referring to because you’re 47 and by your shitty attempt at mansplaining I doubt you have any actual social skills/awareness…especially with women.

[Staximus]

I don't have any social skills? Aren't you the girl who posted about wanting to bang random dudes because you couldn't stand the thought of putting forth the effort to get to know them?

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m celibate have been for a long time now but yes I’ve asked questions about casual sexual relationships. Aren’t you the one who keeps answering my questions and then having male pick me energy? lol

[KittygosMeoWW]

You should be focusing on your retirement bud… 47 and still on here instead of interacting with women in person and 0 social skills oof

[MasterKS]

I dont mind to try both!

[Jennz6]

I don’t understand

[PeterLegg91]

Yes please

[TallAnon]

I like both equally

[eagle1951]

not me

[Luckycharms12]

Don't understand