Is she attached to me or actually in love?

[Anonymous]

They are this girl who follows me on social media. I know her personally last time we talked she acted off. I found out a few months ago that her mother and grandpa died. She draws me pictures and tell my I'm her favorite person. She doesn't seem to be in love but people says she really into me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I think man:

It sounds like she really cares about you a lot, but whether it's "love" is hard to say for sure. A few things could be goin on:

- Losing family members like that can make a person extra attached to the friends they have left. So she may be clingin to you more for comfort.

- Drawin pictures and callin you her favorite is definitely showin she thinks about you lots. But could just be she sees you as a close buddy.

- Sometimes girls compliment guy friends lots without it meanin romance. We're just not as good at showin we care without people thinkin we like-like them.

- Only she knows what's really in her heart. It's possible over time her feelings could grow into more if you guys stay close. But no guarantee.

My advice would be just keep bein a good friend to her. Let her know you're there for her always. And make sure you're not mixin signals or leadin her on if you just see her as a pal. As long as you're both open with each other, the friendship can stay solid no matter what. Just give it time to see if anythin changes on either end.

[Anonymous]

It honestly could be either or. If you guys talk all day and night I'd say in love or infatuated. How do you feel about her? Does this make you uneasy?

[Asker]

I don't really know how I feel about it

[Opinion Owner]

If she's drawing you she must really like you

[Opinion Owner]

Just give her space

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

She definitely likes you. We ain't drawing someone just because..