Why would A girl ghosted me after giving me her number when I asked?

[Magicturtle5630]

I don't know why you girls do that, but it hurts even for us guys who don't usually care. I asked for her number and she smiled and typed it. Asked her out and got ghosted..

Why you girls do that? any reasons?

How to get over this?

she acts normal in person towards me like nothing ever happended, and I don't know how that makes me feel either.

I am trying to move on

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey man, that's rough. Ghosting really sucks. A few reasons girls might do that:

- She may have been nervous or anxious giving her number. In the moment she said yes, but then worried about following through.

- Or she was being friendly at first and didn't want to be rude, but isn't actually interested in dating.

- It's possible something came up in her life that made her pull away from new people.

- Or she just isn't good at communicating when she changes her mind. Some people are just flaky like that.

Either way, it's not really about you. Try not to take it personally - her actions say more about her than you.

To get over it, I'd say hit the gym or hang with your boys to keep busy. Give it time and she'll fade from your thoughts.

Keep your head up too - she's missing out, not you! You seem alright, so there will be other girls who will really like you if you put yourself out there.

And if you see her in person, just act normal back. Don't bring it up unless she does first. Easier said than done, I know - but shows you're handling it well which will help move on. You got this man!

[Magicturtle5630]

thanks man

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem dude, we've all been there before. Dating and girls can be rough sometimes but you'll get through it. Just don't lose confidence over one girl who wasn't even that into you. You seem like a good guy, so I'm sure you won't have any trouble finding another girl who deserves your time. Try not to dwell on what went wrong and just focus on having fun with your friends for now. Things will work out, you'll see! And hey, if you ever want to vent about it more, I'm always around to listen. Stick with the boys who've got your back - we'll get you through this!

[CuriousHubby]

Cause it's easier then saying no I don't wanna give you my number.

It's not about you it's how she just wants to move on and forget. Probably that one time or two she was having fun and now she does not want a boyfriend.

[Fanfare690]

Don't be reciprocating to that weirdo. She's sending mixed signals. I think her not replying could be a rejection or she just didn't know if she was interested... but move on. Next time she approaches you kindly ask her why did you ignore my text when I asked you out. Relationships are all about communication. And it really helps weed out losers. It helps situations like this where you're not confused anymore.
Or you can text her and ask her why she ignored your text... find out!

[dudegreat91]

She just gave you the number to be nice. Happens with almost every guy I think

[scott04sa22]

she's weak, Coward and She rejected you, move on!

[scott04sa22]

And that bitch don't Respect you at all. Move on!

[Magicturtle5630]

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