Is there any reason or meaning why a girl would cup her breasts while we are talking?

[Anonymous]

There is this girl I'm friends with at work, sometimes when we talk, I've noticed she kinda cups her breasts, not sure, but it kind of seems like an unconscious thing.

I've really never observed any other of my female friends do this, thought it was kind of odd.

I haven't really seen her do this while talking to other people but I'm not really around her all day so I'm not sure if its a normal behavior for her or not.

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Instead of cupping, I probably should have said framing.

She put her hands, with her index fingers on the underside and her thumbs on the outside and held that position for a little while as we were talking.

[Tarifa]

Girls may be better than guys at hiding their feelings, but I've noticed girls will be nervous around you when they really like you. It may take the form of playing with her hair, biting her lip, smiling a lot, all sorts of unconscious things they do and are very specific. No one is exactly like any other. She might be a bit uneasy because secretly she wants to look her best.

The question is: do you like her? From what you describe, you certainly notice the way she cups her breasts while talking to you. She could be, intentionaly or unintentionaly, drawing your attention to her physique. Ask her to have breakfast someday, or meet up on a day both of you are free. I'm not talking romantic dinner, just get together for a coffee. Take it from there. If she wants to flirt with you, you have a green light to take it a step further.

[Iron_Man]

Do you mean puts her hand over her breast? Maybe she thinks that you’re looking

[Asker]

No, she put her hands, with her index fingers on the underside and her thumbs on the outside and held that position for a little while as we were talking.

Other times I noticed she kind of just, I guess, traces around part of one or both

Also our work place is very casual (warehouse) she usually wears loose t shirts and she is fairly slim and "petite"

[SweetJoyGirl]

That doesn’t mean she likes you. 😂
It could be a habit of hers that is random or her bra isn’t not supporting enough.

[Asker]

LMAO Can you tell me exactly where I said: "Does that mean she likes me?"

I don't think its really a habit of hers, the only times I've ever seen her do it, is when I'm around her. She doesn't do it all the time just sometimes.

That doesn't mean she never does it, just our work place is pretty open (warehouse) I have never really see her do that even if she is by herself.

"her bra isn’t not supporting enough"
It's possible I guess

But say if you were "adjusting" yourself in that manner, wouldn't you be more discreet about it? and not do it directly in front of someone you were talking to?

[HelpfulWoman]

they're sore/ bra doesn't support them as well as they should.

[Asker]

I am not an expert on that matter, but I don't believe that to be the case, respectfully, she is fairly petite.

[HelpfulWoman]

respectfully, you don't need to believe that to be true. Being petite doesn't mean thats not whats happening..

[itsannalee]

Maybe she feels uncomfortable with, so trying to fit it.

[Asker]

I doubt that's why, like I said we are friends. I feel she is very comfortable when she's around me.

[itsannalee]

I guess u just want to hear what u want to hear, because in your mind u already think that she is trying to flirt with u. So go ahead…

[Asker]

I am not sure why you would jump to a conclusion like that.

I've never observed this type of behavior before and was wondering if perhaps, there is like some kind of psychological reasoning behind it.

[Anonymous]

What were you talking about? Context might help.

[Anonymous]

Nobody does that.

[Asker]

Well she does