Does this make a woman a hoe?

[Anonymous]

If a woman seems to have better conversation-or friendships with men more than she does women, would women look at her as a “whore”.

[Nxtawm]

No but she’ll probably get called a pick me. I’d probably think so too or at least think it’s a bit weird if I were to notice a woman only has guy friends or has better conversations only with guys. Because it’s okay to be friends with the opposite gender but I’d think it’s weird you can’t get along with ur own gender. Even if you’re more tomboyish than the rest in general, you should still have a few female friends. If it’s only guy friends and you can only have good conversations with guys, I think you probably just hate or are weird around ur own gender 💀

[Asker]

I mean nah I disagree. People (social media more so) took that saying and ran with their own meaning to that. Most people now use it to call anyone woman that that does things most women wouldn’t or that most women feel uncomfortable or not okay with doing. A pick me is a woman who does and says anything to get picked by a man hence “Pick me” that woman who tries her hardest to stand out to men rather ban being herself. The only way a woman having more guys friends or associates or communicating with guys more than women becomes a pick is if she’s yelling it to the world “I only chill with guys. I only talk to guys. Guys are cooler than women. They come with less drama.” Then she’s a pick me because she’s going out her way to let it be known guys are her choice over women any day vs a woman who just naturally vibes with guys better. Does that mean other women would see it differently? Of course but only women who don’t think outside the box. Everything is not about a man, sex and being picked.

[Asker]

It doesn’t mean she hates women or are wired around them either. Some women may have grown up around older brothers or guy cousins. You could enjoy conversation and company of a guy (s), friendly, without hating your own gender. Everything is about context. If she goes out of her way to talk mess about other women or compare herself to other women while communicating with these guys, then that’s a different story.

[Nxtawm]

Well yeah I’m not going off the definition of a pick me. You’re asking what women would look at her as, whether you like it or not, some if not most women are going to look at another women they see mostly hang out with guys as a possible pick me, the rest simply won’t care that she hangs around men. It’s not “only women who don’t think outside the box” strangers won’t know the context and typically won’t care enough to think of ur backstory. Which also you just basically said anyone who calls that type of women a pick me is dumb but in a nicer way. Like only those who realize her true intentions are smart 💀. Doesn’t matter what her backstory or intentions are since they don’t know they’re gonna judge off the surface. And yeah you can enjoy conversations with guys without hating ur own gender, I said if it’s “only” with guys that you have good conversations or you “only” have guy friends then ur weird toward women in some way. I get that maybe they grew up around more guys or there’s whatever other scenario which is why I generalized it into them being more tomboyish. Also why I said it was okay to have friends of the opposite gender, my point was that if you don’t even have a few female friends I’d view it as weird.

[Asker]

“ Which is also you just basically said anyone who calls that type of women a pick me is dumb but in a nicer way.” No what I said is what I said and meant. It has nothing do with another kind of woman being dumb and me calling them dumb in a nice way, maybe that’s how you took it. I simply said the only women I can see viewing that kind of woman as a pick me, without context, doesn’t matter if they choose to look into the backstory of not, Most random women won’t but any woman who sees a girl who communicates often with guys is not gonna instantly think “Oh, she’s a pick me.” Unless like I said she doesn’t think outside of sex and men. That has nothing to do with someone being dumber or not. You made that into a comparison, I didn’t.

[Asker]

How most women will view it has a lot to do with maturity as well.

[Asker]

And no, I’m not saying some women are better because they’re more mature. Sometimes you have to step outside of that comparison complex and just take what you see as you see it in that moment without the extra thinking and assuming because that’s where the whole “pick me.” Thing came from to begin with.

[kylee2437]

No but you are going to have a rough time with romantic relationships when the guy you are trying to date realizes you only possess male friendships.

[Anonymous]

It’s possible. The girl who said no has obviously never experienced it. I’ve heard other women calling numerous women sluts, whores, etc simply because they were talking to all the men. One because they actually thought she was getting around w all the men. Two because she was taking all the attention, so these other women were jealous of her.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Depends... is she randomly always fucking one of them? We all have seen that one woman that keeps guys circling her like the planets revolve around the sun. And she's always fucking one of them and cheating on that current one with another one. What I just described is a slut.

At least a whore gets paid for the sex. Just saying.

[D_Bone_Steak]

"A "slut" is a derogatory term for someone perceived as sexually promiscuous, while a "whore" typically refers to someone who engages in sex for money, also used as an insult." -ChatGPT

[Starrrboy]

Even if it's platonic for her, it's not guaranteed to be the same for the guys.. so in the end it doesn't really matter, she's just an easy girl, an amusement for guys..

[handsomebradybreaker]

Some women, because broads tend to be catty as h**l.

[exitseven]

no, some people just get along with the opposite gender. Not everything is about sex.

[Anonymous]

Well she clearly hates women

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[clampfan101]

Of course not.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[noohair]

What? Are you Bat?

[dudegreat91]

Nope

[CubaPirate]

Most definitely not