Can women be "creeps"?

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Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

Yes, women can be creeps. However, in my experiences, I know this might sound messed up, but they're usually elderly ladies. I would never forget this, but when I was a little girl, my friends the neighborhood warned me of this old lady that lived next door to me, claiming that she was a witch. Me being probably no older than 7 or 8, I believed it. The kids told stories that she would lure kids in her house under the guise of needing help, and when they'd go in, she would "do things to them," as they quoted. These stories scared me so badly to the point where I didn't go near her house. One day though, when playing outside with my friends, I remember my parents said that the elderly lady borrowed something from them and they needed it back. Seeing how this was 20+ years ago, I forgot what it was. They asked me to walk next door to her house and get it. I was terrified! I was screaming that I didn't want to go because she was a witch and was going to put a spell on me. My parents kept trying to convince me that it was just nonsense that the kids made up, but I wasn't having it. Eventually, my parents got tired of me complaining and they said that I would be grounded if I didn't go get the item and speak to her. I walked over to her house terrified and rang the doorbell. It took her a while to open the door because she was very old and when she finally did open it, all she did was stare at me with big eyes that almost looked like they were popping out her skull.

I said, "Hi, I'm here to get [that item] that you borrowed," or something like that, and she guided me into her house. She spoke me to me, told me to sit in the living room, and wait for her to fetch it. I remember sitting in the living room scared to death because I thought she was going to do witchy things to me. I was waiting in there a long time because she moved very slowly. When she finally came back with it, she sat in the living room near me and mostly stared at me some more with her huge eyes. I was creeped out. It took her a while, but after a while, I remember her trying to have a conversation with me. It was about basic things most likely such as school and whatnot. The creepy thing about it was that she wouldn't stop her big eyed gaze the entire time she looked at me. It would also take her a long time to respond to what I told her and get her words out, but during her long pauses, she would randomly smile at me while still keeping her eyes big. Eventually, I got so freaked out to where I said I should be heading home and hurried out of there. I thought she was a creep back then. Of course, when I look back now, I kind of felt bad because I realize now that she probably wasn't a creep, but just a lonely old woman that wanted some company and probably never spoke to young children in a long time. Looking back, she had to have been in her late 90s. Either way, those memories of her supposedly being a witch, those big eyes, and those random smiles haunted me for quite a while during my childhood.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think so yeah - I ghosted a friend for trying to sleep with me when she claims to have a fiance she takes regular pics with - another lady I thought was a good person and now I think she pretends to be illiterate to scam you into giving her money with the lie she can't work - I know another female who was racist and hated religious people and would slander you whenever she was bored or depressed - and I had an older woman try to get me fired at work cause she was jealous I was younger than her and still had my whole life ahead of me - I'm 34 - but before I mentioned my university - most of my co workers thought I was in my late teens

Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

The whole thing comes down to how the word is used. Typically, I repeat typically, when I woman says: “That guy is a creep” it means he’s interested in me, but I couldn’t be less interested in him and I’m weirded out by the concept of a guy I deem far beneath me even thinking of kissing me or wanting to have sex with me, or be in a relationship with me so therefore he’s a creep... even though he hasn’t been inappropriate... or aggressive... nor did he harass me in anyway... he’s a creep.”

What a guy hears is: “that guy is likely a future rapist, he’s a pervert who’s been staking her and is being way too forward, and he’s probably sexual harassing her and won’t take no for an answer.”

The problem is creep is not a good term to use. It creates and embodies an idea that is not usually meant to be conveyed. Yes, that disgusted look on her face when she said a guy is a creep literally is nothing more than her being prideful and arrogant and disgusted that a guy she deems is beneath her had the balls to ask her out.

Women can be creeps I suppose, but they’re far more as a guy would use the term than a girl. You know the type. Always trying to make conversation and catch you at the water cooler, always flirting, always asking what you’re up too, always trying to invite herself to things you didn’t invite her too, you’ve caught her checking you out several times... each week... for the last 3 and a half years, and she’s put it out there and you either ignored it or shot it down hard or laughed and haven’t given her one wif you’re interested, but she keeps at it anyway... relentlessly. That’s a chick creep.

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

I believe pictures mean more than 100 words can

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Yes, I know many IRL female creeps.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Almost all women are creeps.

Almost all women engage in behavior on a daily basis that would get them fired or put in jail if they were a man doing it to women. But since they're women doing creepy, rapey things to men, nobody cares.

If they had to hold themselves to their own standards, 99% of women would fail miserably.

Aguysopinion4799 · Answer

Absolutely bro.
One of my mates had a girl who was a legit stalker and my mate and I would be going into town and we would see her popping up around town every time looking at us from about 4 shops down.

He also told me how she stalks his profiles on his social media and follows him home all the time.

Luckily he reported her and she isn't causing him issues anymore, but yeah man, they can be creeps.

I have also had issues with them but not as bad.

red324 · Answer

I guess I've never noticed. Most women make me nervous, so i'm more concerned with myself being weird unintentionally since women are so quick to call a guy a creep. Unfortunately I grew up around a few overly sensitive women when I was really young, so I guess you could say it ruined me. If it weren't for them I probably would act like I do around guys and not give a shit.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Hell yea especially the aggressive lesbians who dont back off

MissDawn7961 · Answer

yes but both sexes can be creeps ! I have a sister Sharron who is the oldest sibling in my family while I am the youngest ! She is only 4 ^ 11 tall but she is the tops when it comes to being a creep and a bully as well ! She can bully everyone and especially males for she is mad at males for she wants to be a male herself someday ! Thanks

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

Most definitely. I went to the supermarket and accidentally made eye contact with this chick. She then started to get near me. like wtf? Give me some personal space. Yeah she’s hot, but I’m over here just trying to buy some shallots for my wine sauce. Stop trying to lock eyes with me and getting so close. I made accidental eye contact! I’m not interested you thot!

sorry for the rant but women are just so creepy.

Iwillneverunderstand · Answer

Absolutely.  Sometimes I find then more alarming than men.

lightbulb27 · Answer

oh yes they can!!! Creep is what is going on in their mind, their sub conscious projection... what they are ruminating in the background.

wankiam · Answer

ofcourse but most the ones you see on g@g will be guys anyway

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think so. They can be crazy, which is bad enough. Insane, which is far too common. And vindictive as anything. But creeps? No I don't think so.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes i get sexually harassed at the gym as a black man with a humongous BBC m most recently a white girl was starring me at me while i was working on my core, and a few weeks ago a columbian girl chased me down in the parking lot when i was walking to my car. I guess she didn't wanna talk to me at the gym

douride2 · Answer

I have run into a few here on GAG & the odd one in real life also.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, but in order to be considered "creepy" you first have to be able to be perceived as a threat.  Which is not an easy thing for a woman to do.

Boredoftrivialshiiit · Answer

Yeah. My roommate is a major creep and she's tiny and unthreatening physically

SlothySlob · Answer

Yes, but the public tends not to notice and some men tend not to care.

WhiteSteve · Answer

I’ve found it to be much more rare, but they’re out there.

CasaNorba · Answer

the world is flooded with creepy women my friend. if men werent so thirsty for pussy nowadays they would realize this far more often

ronaldo75 · Answer

My whole life I've been drooled after by weird creepy fat older women that are 45+ years old. Even when I was a teen. So yes.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I had a stalker who sent me flowers every workday for a month even though I made it clear I was not interested. I think that qualifies.

winterfox10 · Answer

Ohhhh yeah. Women can be creeps like you wouldn't believe

Shamb · Answer

Yes. Everyone can be creepy and make others uncomfortable with their advances or attitudes in these situations.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Anyone can be a creep; psychosis shows no gender bias.

pervertedjester · Answer

Yes and I've met far more of them then I'd like to have.

kimmieomally · Answer

Yes. I new a girl that was very creepy. I never felt comfortable around her. Very weird.

Pamina · Answer

I find it hard to believe you've never met a female creep before.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but unlike women, men do not throw around the word "creep" with any woman they find unattractive.

Darknut · Answer

Men are, as I should know. I received more than enough comments about me being creepy and didn't even know I was. Just being myself. Who set that standard anyway? I had to beat them off with a stick.

AJ2992 · Answer

Being creepy dosen't need a gender.. it's a free will which anyone may wish to adopt

Mamamialetmego · Answer

yes i think if you don't desire certain actions from opposite sex that's creepy. I mean if i don't desire a certain woman and if she try to approach me sexually that would be creepy for me.

scooogy · Answer

Oh yes they can. I had at least two creep around me, one spreading rumors and the other giving weird stares, whilst spying on my university schedule, my friends and even my home.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes! I get creeped out when women suddenly scream for no apparent reason. I mean sure, it's their house I'm in, and yes, I wasn't invited in, but still... fuck those creeps

FakeName123 · Answer

Considering I have had two female stalkers in my life: Yes, absolutely.

bebop24 · Answer

Lol they are already way creepier then men.. watch Micheal Che Matters the last 20 mins of the stand up shows all lol

DiegoO · Answer

If she says she feels jealous of you talking with other women even tough you all don't even know each other well, or even

Jackpot3Sevens · Answer

Well since these days when someone makes you creepy it basically means someone tries to talk to you who you are not attracted to yes

Thatsamazing · Answer

Yeah but it's more likely that they'll just be a dumb bitch rather than a creep.

BoxySama · Answer

Yes, it has a very different flavor though guys just think it's a good thing, talk to your sister, it's not just admiration...

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Yes but people don't care about them as much as guys.

SydneySentinel · Answer

Oh absolutely

robocop666 · Answer

I have been sexually harassed and stalked more than once by women. So yes as I am talking form experience.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Of course they can. Anybody can be a creep, a boy, a girl, a man or a woman.

The_man_whol_aughs · Answer

According to society no  According to reality no doubt about it  But I never experienced them

Brad23203 · Answer

Hmmm, let me see... Killery Clinton, Nutsey Pelosi, Maximus waters. I'm gonna go with "Yes".

Darcia · Answer

Yes it rubbed the wrong way

SpacedCharr · Answer

Yes, 1000% yes.

livingthelife19 · Answer

Heck yea. They are the worst ones of all

ShadowofRegret · Answer

Of course, anyone from either gender can be one.

Anonymous · Answer

far less likely than guys, men can be labeled, this is one social advantage I envy about women.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Indubitably

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Yeah I know a girl like that

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. But I gotta be honest, I’d find it flattering if it was happening to me.

Justacatlady · Answer

Hell yes they can.

serious · Answer

Yes of course. Both the genders can be.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Absolutely.

DorkVader · Answer

Abso-fucking-lutely.

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Theoretically, yes

thenewgirlll · Answer

Well, we’re crazy by nature aren’t we?

KaitieSearching · Answer

Yup yup yup

scoob1990 · Answer

There are lots of them out there 😂

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