If this was your partner what would you do?

[Anonymous]

So let's say you been in a committed relationship with this Woman for a month or so and she gives you her insta or something and you see that her profile pics on her public profiles are her with hardly anything on and breasts almost completely exposed. Would you take a relationship with her seriously? Wouldn't it make you think she might not be willing to take a relationship with you seriously? Doesn't it make you think she is wanting attention from anyone and willing to flirt with any guy that sees her? Why would a woman have a profile like that if she's in a relationship?

[ManOnFire]

I most definitely would not. In my experience, women like what you describe often want an 'open relationship' or are bisexual. They're playing for both teams and want you to be okay with it, or at least respect that it's what she wants to do. You don't have to accept it at all of course.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn’t. This isn’t about having trust issues either. I don’t get why women like to say things like that. That if a man doesn’t like you half naked online you have trust issues. If you don’t date fat chucks your fat phobic. It’s a preference. If that’s not a preference of yours then move on. Men need to stop letting women shame them for preferences we have.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sure, I would take it seriously. I don't have trust issues with her taking photos and posting them. If she cheats, then I have trust issues and will end the relationship.

[Asker]

Hmm it is interesting to hear that, but don't you think her showing her naked photos to everyone is cheating on you in a way? Wouldn't it be a sign of her cheating in the least?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You said she was clothed, now she was naked? That's different then. It's still not cheating, but I'd have a bigger problem if she is sending nude photos to people.

[Asker]

Thanks for catching that, but yes in this situation she's practically not wearing clothes (like she's shirtless just the photo is cropped just enough to not see her nipples) in the photos she posts on her profile. Doesn't posting a photo like that on the profile publicly for everyone to see make it abit inappropriate for a woman in a relationship? You sure that wouldn't make you raise a eyebrow about it?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No, if she's dressed, it's still fine to me. It would be no different than taking photos in a bikini on the beach to me. I'd be more worried if she were flirting with people that are liking her photos than I would be with how she is dressed.

[Agape93]

Wouldn't bother me, it's her body

[Asker]

I agree it is her body with respect but what about the relationship?

[Agape93]

Again, it wouldn't bother me so why would it affect the relationship?

[Asker]

It could've been a red flag you decided to be okay with.

and I really hope this doesn't happen to you because like some people are just okay with it and let it slide, and not really discuss the situation the person keeps doing it, before they know it the person is flirting with someone else and bored with you after texting someone else because the attention they got from someone else is what they were wanting. It ends up leaving you kinda blindsided because you wouldn't think it would've turned out that way.

[Agape93]

Not a red flag to me, it sincerely isn't even a concern for me.