Girl I used to date ignores me but when walking by says hi to people I’m walking with?

[Anonymous]

Girl I used to date only says hi to people I’m walking with. But if there not with me she doesn’t. Why does she do this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda weird man. A few possibilities I can think of:

- She might be trying to avoid directly interacting with you after you broke up or whatever. Saying hi to your friends is an indirect way.

- Maybe she's still got feelings but is playing it cool and doesn't want you to know? So keeps it casual by just acknowledging your friends.

- Could also be she wants to look like she's on good terms with everyone so it's not awkward. Even if things weren't great between you two.

- Some girls can be kinda passive aggressive too. Like she wants you to notice she's ignoring you one on one.

I'd say just play it chill too. Don't make a big deal of it or overanalyze. But next time you're all together, casually say hi back if you make eye contact. Ball's in her court then - up to her if she wants to have a real convo or keep it surface level. Try not to let it bug you too much dude.

[Anonymous]

You do not know she never says hello to them when they’re not with you. Like that doesn’t even make sense, so they not exist unless at your side? You really diminish their presence so much? My guess is you know only what you see and you don’t see each movement she makes a
24/7.

[Asker]

I know because if I walking behind them she doesn’t say anything.

[Opinion Owner]

And you walk behind her the entire day?

[Opinion Owner]

You are not seeing every interaction through the entire day, that’s all I’m saying.