Why does she always say hello to me but completely ignores me when she's with her friends?

[Jack77732]

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Like she always says hello to me waves, talks the lot but when i was recently stood behind her and friends in a que she wouldn't even make eye contact or say anything

[Rosexøxø]

LET US ALL 🙏 KEEP IT SIMPLE.

She is either EMBARRASSED OF YOU

OR

EMBARRASSED OF HERSELF.

- Maybe she doesn’t want her friends to know that she is fond of you. (She wouldn’t want them making passes at you or making little cues that she liked you or something).

- Maybe she doesn’t want you talking to her with her friends because she is thinking you’d go after her friends. 👀 (wants everyone quiet and the crowd to disperse).

- Maybe she likes you, but doesn’t want her friends to think she actually is fond of you. (Could be embarrassment). 😶‍🌫️

- Maybe her friends talked bad about you, so she is uncomfortable when all the parties are together. 😵

I DONT KNOW lol but seriously 👐 it’s gotta be some level of shame in there somewhere. Or Uncertainty. It’s either her, you, or both?

Get communicative to understand THE TRUTH, or pass on and let that (possible drama) go. Up to you.

Best to you!
Respect yourself! Go after your dreams! 🙏 🧘‍♀️

[DesiUwU]

Bro, males shouldn't be answering this.

What I'd have to say is, whenever i get to actually talk to someone that's not my boyfriend, then i like to do it and i like to have a full, great convo. I don't have many friends, so when i actually get to talk to them it's good to catch up. and if i sense the boy feeling left out, i'll try to bring him into the convo.

[DaveJord]

Dude are you really 36? This is highschool stuff... don't linger around when she is with freinds that an awkward creep... be a man and approach her like a man and ask her out like a gentlemen would ask out a lady.

Quit acting like some lost school aged child! Go home tonight and inspect your ball sack and make sure it's still there and all in one piece, then go out tomorrow on a mission to ask this woman out the next time you see her in person. But ask her out when she is alone... not in front of other people. Like after she waves at you next time, actually walk up to her and talk to her like a man with a fully grown and intact ball sack would.

[FilmGuy93]

One thing I’ve noticed is that age is no indication of maturity. There are a lot of people in their mid to late thirties who act like high schoolers

[DaveJord]

@FilmGuy93 Yyou are 100% correct!!!

[On_cloud_wine]

Super correct. I call this the Peter Pan syndrome

[ZXCwWRQWz]

That's when you're supposed to man up the most. Charm all her friends and then her the last. The girl likes the vulnerable guy but needs him to just man up and plow through and take some risks here and there. When she's with her friends, that is one situation. When she's in danger, another.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

There is last ditch move I recommend. Try not to do it unless it is the last hope. But when she is with her friends and everything fails, pick her up off her feet and carry her to a place where you two are alone. Then show (not tell) how much you like her.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

But never at any sign of more than humorous resistance. You carry her to a new place and maybe you kiss her. And if she rejects that's that. You have to be willing to give up as soon as you start. But you start it. And if she kisses you back you carry it through and reach around and touch her butt, then if she is still kissing you grab and lift her butt. And you continue.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

With sufficient boldness, you should be able to at least touch or even kiss every woman you like dearly. But that's when the gentleman kicks in. You should also be willing to stop and call it quits if she doesn't seem to like kissing you or has mixed thoughts about it.

[FilmGuy93]

She doesn’t want to see her friends talking to you. That kind of thing happens either when she has super shitty friends, or you aren’t much to show off

[coachTanthony]

She is worried about what they think plain and simple. You could say she is just being polite but a wave doesn't cost a thing even when talking to others. And not to mention how are you 36 and talking this way? Makes me wonder.

[aaron210419]

It means she's probably embarrassed, either about you or about her friends. Either way, just saying hello to you or talking with you doesn't mean she sees you as a friend and the fact that she ignores you when she with her friends means there's a reason that she didn't want them to know that she associates with you. I wouldn't let it get to me, there are a lot of shallow girls out there.

[JamesDiaz11]

Because she's susceptible to peer pressure, and the type of guys she interacts with will be the metric that she's judged by. If she entertains guys that aren't to her friends standards (likely inflated) in front of them, she'll probably get flak for it.

[Anonymous]

Pecking order. You're way down on it. a lot of women only look at men as the tribute they can provide them. This woman probably enjoys the attention of other men she considers more worthy, till those men are no longer available. Then she sees you and goes, "OK, better then nothing". I want to make this clear. This doesn't mean you have less value. But that is her perception.

[dustybiker]

Everyone has hit on possibilities. One I think that was left out is just feeling inadequate around her friends? Maybe she thinks you might like them better?

Only she knows.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Yeah because maybe friends will embarrass her. Not worth over a guy who doesn't show real interest.

[Daniela1982]

Because she thinks she is too cool to be seen with you?

[Phoenix98]

Your better off just not interacting with her. Take it from someone with experience these types are unhealthy to be around.

[inhua]

she's ashamed of you. this is her true colors.

[jshm2]

Because you're an acquaintance, not a friend.

[rienna888]

She doesn’t want her friends to tease her, she’s afraid you will start giving attention to her friend, she actually didn’t notice you

[Straight2thepoint]

36... for reals, you 36 years old. Damn I though a 16 year old would say this. You need friends bro.

[KrakenAttackin]

She wants to string you along but doesn't want her friends to think she likes you. Her friends know who her real Chad objective is.

[collie22]

She's not sure what her friends would think of you. You might need th move on

[MountAverage]

Okay. And we're supposed to know what's going on in her mind?

[PinkRose24]

She sounds like she's a bitch.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Usually that's not a good sign...

[Iron_Man]

That’s rude and selfish

[Whatisthatname]

Maybe she got better things to do?