What makes a girl a 10?

[Anonymous]

[Hope19s_]

The idea of what makes someone a "10" is highly subjective and varies from person to person. What one person considers perfect might be different for someone else. However, being a "10" often goes beyond just physical appearance. Here are some qualities that many people find attractive:

1. **Confidence:** Confidence is often seen as one of the most attractive traits. It shows that you are comfortable with who you are and carry yourself with self-assurance.

2. **Kindness and Compassion:** How you treat others speaks volumes about your character. Kindness, empathy, and a caring nature are qualities that many people value highly.

3. **Sense of Humor:** Being able to laugh and have fun is important in any relationship. A good sense of humor can make you more approachable and enjoyable to be around.

4. **Intelligence and Ambition:** Intelligence doesn’t just refer to book smarts—it can also mean emotional intelligence, creativity, and the drive to achieve your goals. Ambition shows that you’re motivated and have a vision for your life.

5. **Authenticity:** Being true to yourself and not pretending to be someone you’re not is often seen as highly attractive. Authenticity builds trust and creates a deeper connection.

6. **Passion:** Whether it’s a passion for your hobbies, career, or causes you believe in, having something you’re passionate about can make you more interesting and vibrant.

7. **Physical Appearance:** While beauty is in the eye of the beholder, taking care of your physical health, hygiene, and personal style can enhance your attractiveness. It’s less about fitting a specific mold and more about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable.

8. **Emotional Maturity:** The ability to handle emotions, communicate effectively, and navigate relationships with understanding and patience is highly valued in a partner.

9. **Respectfulness:** Treating others with respect, including yourself, is a sign of integrity and maturity. It’s an essential foundation for any healthy relationship.

10. **Positive Energy:** A positive outlook and the ability to uplift others can be incredibly attractive. People are often drawn to those who make them feel good and bring positive energy into their lives.

In the end, being a "10" is about being the best version of yourself, embracing your unique qualities, and finding someone who appreciates and values you for who you are.

[ohsheeT]

When she likes herself when she loves herself when she's happy and she can smile..

Smart she's intelligent she's wise and doesn't have to prove it to anybody..

She stays away from drama and does not judge..

She has a very beautiful heart she's very kind and she can read people's eyes and know if they need a helping hand and she would be there because she's there at that moment.

Is she strong she's independent she loves she cares

. And with every word you can tell that she has a very beautiful heart she's just genuine she is real she is herself and the outside is just all an extra bonus

Not afraid to get dirty she's not afraid to laugh at herself and she's a beautiful Hot lover

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you want to look skinny hangout with fat people & if you want to make a girl a ten have her hangout with girls that are twos & threes.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Then come here to Windsor, where about two-thirds of the broads are ones, twos and threes !!!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@beefcakebradybatson Oh Shit!

[beefcakebradybatson]

With my 160+ IQ and outstanding good looks, I stand out here like a sore thumb.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Ehhh... sort of a dicey subject... on one hand I don't believe in rating humans from a 1 to 10 system, but since you're specifically asking, here I go.

This might sound cliche, but personality is the number one thing. Someone who is warm and caring. Who always tries their best. Takes care of themselves. Etc...

For physical appearance, I would not look into any specific traits since humans are so diverse and unique that I wouldn't wanna "lock in" to specific characteristics.

But ONE thing I will say. A healthy body. So not too underweight or overweight, since I wouldn't want the person I love to ruin their health. It can be difficult to watch.

Also no severe facial deformities or anything like that. For the most part I'm of the opinion appearance doesn't matter much, but I can't act like it doesn't matter at all to me. I'd gladly be friends with a physically deformed person, but not romantically involved.

Another thing, probably uncommon too, but none of those huge super muscular "bodybuilder" type women. I don't even like that look on men, much less on women. To each their own, but it's a bit much to me.

That's all, really.

[Datboi65]

Ratings are quite subjective. One person's 10 is another one's 5.

In my opinion, nobody is perfect and nobody is a 10.

If your asking what makes someone attractive, I will break it down in 3 major criteria:

A) Looks: Fit, takes care of her skin, good hygiene and good style.

B) Character: Kind, polite, calm and classy.

C) Values: Religious, family-oriented and charitable.

That's what I would go for in a woman. Some might agree, some might disagree. Everyone is allowed to have an opinion.

[RebelinSteel]

Nothing as there is no such things as perfect and tbh the entire scoring this is a bit stupid, 10 is too low a number, maybe 1000 would be closer.

[realeyeofthetiger]

Not a narcissist/bully

Not someone obsessed with their looks

Not someone who value themselves or others based on their looks

Not someone who has no accountability.

Not someone who craves attention.

Not someone who treats others poorly.

Not obsessed with extensive body modifications to chase toxic beauty standards.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Damn, you really like your maths a lot here. if you really like maths this much then:

Girl is not an integer. Reconsider. Here is an helpful thread to assist you in your errands: https://stackoverflow.com/questions/3501382/checking-whether-a-variable-is-an-integer-or-not

[V_Injector]

Physical points: Not fat and looks like she's taken a bath. Brushed her teeth.

Mental points: Not crazy, retarded, have a drug habit AKA not voting for Kamala

[BetaBucks]

"perfect" would be: skinny, medium boobs, medium bubble butt, light brown skin, long and dark hair, bright eyes, 5'2-5'4, symmetrical face, smooth skin, perfect grooming, 18-24 years old.

10/10 just means top 10%, which is a hell of a lot easier than "perfect." So basically skinny, decent boobs/butt, not too short, not too tall, under 35, long hair and decent skin.

[brockett]

i think it is a woman who scores the best in 3 different areas. 1. looks, is she appealing to the eye? 2. personality, bubbly and sweet or bitchy and negative. 3. morals and ethics, do u respect yourself and others and how you live your life?

it is a blend of these 3 things that make a lady score as a ten. of course there's much more to it involving each one but thats the basics of each part of it. maybe there's more parts to it but i believe this accounts for the basis of which most men use to score women on a 1 to 10 scale overall.

also i believe there is no such thing as a 10. I've never met one.

[HawkPerception]

It's subjective, but

10/10 in looks based on the guy's taste

10/10 in terms of how compatible they are with your personality (which is much more rare to find than 10/10 in looks)

A 10/10 girl for one guy might be another guy's 8/10 because it's different for every guy

[TheSpaceGnome]

Long thick hair, cute face, petite body, huge boobs, small butt.
Silly, bubbly, kind, hyper, joyful, talented, and smart.
Shares all my hobbies (making art and music, gaming, anime/cartoons, science research, sci-fi and fantasy, wildlife, and messing with technology).

[Grond21]

This type seems to be much more common with men our age. I wonder why?

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Grond21 Dunno, thats what I've wanted for a wife the entire time, not just at this age.

It may just be that guys who want that type of wife end up single for longer, because she is hard to find (since people with that lifestyle are home most of the time).

[Grond21]

I meant in terms of body mainly, although a bit of personality too. Hobbies not as much.
Yeah, I think you are right. It does make it difficult when they are homebodies.
Something about men our age like that body type

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Grond21 Oh, in terms of body, the offspring of men who preferred healthy women survived longer, so the trait got selected for.

[Grond21]

Yes, that is why it will never go out of fashion. But many men who are younger seem to care about big butts most. Us nineties men like women who are very busty. My cousin is the same way

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Grond21 I was born in the 1980s
Also most men of most generations prefer big boobs and a small butt, the men who prefer the opposite tend to be bi or bi leaning.

[Grond21]

Historically that is inaccurate

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Grond21 Hisrorical documents are inaccurate.

[Grond21]

Haha, probably true, at least for some of them.

Sorry, I didn't mean to shut you down, I was just busy doing multiple things at once. I think many men in history have preferred breasts, and ones that are at least of medium size. But there have been many time periods when men preferred smaller ones, and I do not believe that men who prefer butts are somehow bisexual. Women's bodies are beautiful and men can prefer different areas at different times in different cultures. For example, there's a culture in the West Pacific that focuses on women's thighs. It just depends

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm aware, but bisexuality tends to be more common in places where men prefer smaller chests.

[Grond21]

That very well may be true. It would make sense, but correlation in one direction does not equal causation in the other.
The Jewish people do not tend to eat pork, but places with lower pork consumption are not automatically Jewish. That's just an example

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Grond21 I'm aware, but that logic only applies if you don't examine context.
Religious people who's religion says don't eat pork are less likely to knowingly eat pork. Correlation and causation are the same thing, its just people think its 2 different things because they aren't doing ENOUGH correlating.

Causation is just many many correlating observations.

[Grond21]

You are making the same mistake.

All causation is correlation, but not all correlation is causation.

All (generally) don't eat pork, but not all those who don't eat pork are Jews. Muslims are a great example.

All (generally) bisexual guys are interested in smaller boobs, but not all guys interested in small boobs are bisexual.

To give another example, all elk are animals, but not all animals are elk. Or all fathers with young kids need to buy diapers, but not all diaper buyers are fathers.

[Grond21]

Most people agree who is ugly. Rank 5-7 is agreed upon by many, but not all people. Rank 8-9 is far more specialized, and while many people agree on who belongs to these levels it's much more common for there to be divergent opinions. Finally, each person has something that is just magic to us, and it doesn't always have to be physical. If a 9 woman has that trait, then for that man she is a 10

[OtterMan68]

For looks? Athletically toned body, good cheekbones, pretty eyes and smile, gorgeous hair. Taller than average

[Falcon12345]

A 10 is literally perfect in body, face, personality and everything else and sooooooooo far above my league but that is unobtainable for anybody to have so finding someone who you get along with and find attractive is honestly a better deal anyway it means they are human just like you and you can learn together and that to me anyway is a much better deal

[PapaJedi]

Pretty face, feminine, petite, brunette - personal preference

Bit sassy but sweet

Likes to laugh but can be serious

Traditional (as I have traditional values myself)

Not a gambler / heavy drinker / smokes

[worldscolide]

Definitely not just her appearance. A woman can be a perfect 10 in the body and face, but if she has a shit personality, or if she smokes, drinks, or does drugs and she gets dropped to a zero instantly to me.

[SpaceGalaxy]

1- Round, tight Butt

2- Full set of lips

3- Hairless everywhere except her private (trimmed)

4- Smaller feet (pedicured)

5- Medium-size breast

6- Fresh, minty breath

7- Showers daily

8- Changes undies twice daily

9- Have opinions on her own

10- Does NOT act like she likes everything her boyfriend likes just to please him (like sports)

[Serkee]

I'm not sure, I don't think I've ever met a 9 or a 10.

[ccrash56]

That is a complicated one. I doesn't always involve looks it is the attitude as well. There smile, eyes, stature, and have a positive attitude. You can't just pick them out in a photo you need to meet them and get to know them. Find out what makes the live life.

[firenine909]

Cute pretty face and sweet hair
Thick curvy athletic body
Perfect C or D cup boobs that are soft and round
cute and round or big soft curvy ass cheeks
Big curvy thighs


Then you have a 10

[MikeTheBartender]

Love.

I'm a shallow fuck, but if a man loves a woman and she loves him back. She's a ten.

[OfMiceandMen]

If she's getting herself and ice cream and grabs me one too.

[nawtee_me]

Attitude, Attitude, Attitude… if you don’t feel and act like a 10 then you will never be a 10…

[Anonymous]

It’s all subjective. There’s no perfect 10 as far as every man seeing her that way. A girl who may be less than good looking may be a 10 to a man who is on her level. Whereas that 10 may be a 3 to someone else.

[Quidthonian]

There is not a single, or combination of factors. This rating is subjective. Even if it wasn't, and you knew what it is, I am pretty sure that you ladies would try to fake the qualities of being a "10".

[melnc]

Loyalty
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Loyalty

[beefcakebradybatson]

A great body (hair, legs and buns), girlish voice and personality, brains, character and a joy of being around her.

[sawno]

She is sexually attractive and has a highly compatible personality.

[DrPepper12]

Having the insight and good sense to get frisky with me!

[blondfrog]

I actually have a different scoring system. Its out of 30 points and not 10. So this way even if a woman is a 10 she would still fail if her body and personality is a 0.