If she's my girlfriend, she's a perfect 10
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+1 yGraceful and unashamedly feminine.
Caring, sweet, supportive.
Cares about her appearance and knows how to ride the line between "sexy" and "elegant" with some cuteness mixed in, but is mostly unfazed by the attentions of men (no daddy issues she tries to reconcile in adulthood by being an attention whore).
Good around kids and animals and vulnerable members of society (the elderly, disabled, mentally challenged etc), and treats everyone with common courtesy and decency. Mistreating service staff is a classic red flag for instance.
Invests in herself, works to improve her mind body and spirit (ie: striving to act morally and in service of the people around her), and is generally "all in" on trying to be the best person she could be. (If she falls short of that ideal -- which of course she will, being human and all -- I'd support her and try to be a safety net to catch her when she falls. The main thing is she has the intention to improve and to live morally and treat people fairly and to self-improve etc. The execution is secondary.)
Has a physical appearance that I find inherently sexy /cute /attractive. ("inherently" meaning, in spite of the clothes and makeup she happens to wear at a particular moment). Looks aren't everything but that immediate attraction needs to be there, is what I'm getting at.
Adventurous in bed and not too shy to explore each other's sexual fantasies (within limits ofc)53 Reply- +1 y
Some level of intelligence and verbal wit and creativity would also lift her 'value' in my books, but it's not like she needs to be the next Einstein. If she's sharp enough to keep me on my toes a little, then all the better.
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You must be quite a catch then 🥰
+1 yIf we must use the number system, then:
1 - 3 like having some physical birth defect, mutilating accident, etc that's very noticeable and affecting appearances heavily.
4 - 5 is normal human being with or without makeup.
6 - 7 genetically blessed that you don't need makeup.
8 - 10 is subjective.
Majority of people think they a 7+ naturally or with make up. Love the confidence, but realistically, a lot of us are 5 and 6. Makeup helps us make a great first impression but it's not our real face.
Anyway, 8 - 10 is subjective because there's no perfect person; you may look good to one individual while another can find you unattractive. On the flip side, anyone has the potential to be a 10 to someone based on your personality and their definition of beauty. So if you're healthy both body/mind, enjoying life, and picking your partner's wisely, then you're already on your way to becoming someone's 10.21 Reply
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+1 yIt's mostly opinion based. Though there are qualities that are considered conventionally attractive (meaning the majority of people find them attractive), one person's 10/10 may not be another person's.
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u +1 yA perfect 10 obviously has physical beauty but she is approachable and does not act like she is a stuck up bitch. She smiles, has fun with everyone else, and is low maintenance. And she acts grateful to have a boyfriend who cares about her.
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so im that lady @OlderAndWiser haha and still i never had a boyfriend or date before in my life
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You live in Costa Rica?
+1 yThere's no such thing.. Noone is "perfect" physically or otherwise..
This rating people on a number scale is stupid anyways in my opinion.. we're all human, we all have flaws.. It's accepting a person, flaws and all that matter.00 Reply
+1 yIt’s very subjective!! I can’t really answer as a woman because I don’t know either 😅
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+1 yGreat question!
I started thinking about how to answer this, and it's not so simple. It's not just a matter of a certain size, color, shape of eyes, nose, chest, etc. There are so many absolutely 10/10 physically beautiful women out there, of various heights, weights, eye/hair color, etc.
Same thing for personality, it's not as though humor is a dealbreaker, nor any other trait really. People can be such a pleasant serendipity if you are open to learning who they are rather than dismissing someone for not meeting a requirement.
All that said, I think a perfect woman has balance to her personality and physical traits. But I also don't think anyone is really perfect, part of our perfection is having flaws, but accepting that we are not perfect, but we can be loved for who we are.20 Reply
+1 yA woman who dresses well can go from a 3 to a 10 and beyond. A woman that doesn't put effort into her clothing, despite her attractive physical features, can go from a 10 to a 1.
Clothing choices really do go a long way when it comes to attractiveness. I don't care if you're a famous model, if you walk around town in shabby misfitting clothing, you're gonna look super ugly to me.
Look at this model (Gigi Hadid) ... she looks like an absolute slob. Instantly goes from an 8.5 to a 2 due to the fact that she doesn't know how to dress herself.
This girl, on the other hand, is an instant 10 even if her face isn't just because she is fashionable and classy.
20 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well to me, there are different category of what what makes a girl a 10... on just a pure physical scale then it come back to the ass, tits, waist, eyes and face right? We all of those things that we find attractive and for every one that will be different.
For me a girl that ranks a 10... is anyone from 5 to 10 on the physical scale... that displays a serious interest, that is not only physically but emotionally available to me, confident, demonstrates or take initiative within the relationship, is responsive, is empathetic, giving and caring.
To me you have to a have all those things, or any combination of them to rank a 10.23 Reply- +1 y
Agreed. I don't get one thing though. Why is it that they don't want a girl that has a bad past? Why can't he be there for her? Why is it that only she has to be emotionally available? she may be the best most understanding person in the world, but she'd never be anyone's first choice because of her past... not directed to you by the way, don't mean to corner you... : )
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Well my reply wasn't based on myself, but on my best friend... By bad past I meant damaged... but honestly, because of that damage, the person becomes a 10 in my opinion... because they're more experienced and can understand a person better and know how to deal with the problems in relationships... And yeah she dealt with everything she went through since the age of 7 badly at first, but really well later and she doesn't let it interfere in her social life... umm I'm merely a loyal friend but I can tell you, she's gorgeous, wise, gets good grades, athletic but not muscular, kind, funny, quirky... and has a keen observation... she always knows when I'm bothered by something just by looking at my face for a millisecond... and we're long distanced so I can't even comfort her properly when she's bothered by this... umm sorry for the fangirling over her, she's just been a pure angel to me, that's what I mean...
+1 yA woman being a "10" will vary depending on who you ask. How a woman looks, her attitude, how she presents herself, how she carries herself. Although how a man is also depends on the same qualities. It is albumin the eyes of who's looking. Some men like large breasts, but I personally prefer B cup and smaller. Some like a larger butt, I prefer a nice firm backside. Everyone has a variety of preferences. It is like some women prefer a guy to have a "LARGE" tool, you know elbow and wrist, while others don't. Height comes into thr computation of Tae perfect 10, be it a man or woman.
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Your welcome. I see most things from an abstract view. Everyone sees things differently. What one person sees in a person might not be visible to someone else and visa versa. What one person Iikes, someone else might not. I like piercings and tattoos, but not to many and some are damn sexy to me. Preferences vary.
For me it's a number of things.
A woman who is intelligent, kind, caring. Who can match me in banter and roast me until I cry from laughing so hard. Who isn't afraid to be completely herself in front of me. Who accepts my flaws and doesn't judge me. Someone who laughs when somebody farts rather than being offended.
Someone who has a cheeky smile and a glint in her eye. Open minded. Doesn't take herself too seriously. Enjoys dirty jokes and memes. Doesn't get offended by words and just accepts that people have different opinions.
Got that personality? You're already a solid 9 in my eyes.
Looks really are secondary, but if you have that "special something" that catches my eye on top of the personality stuff, you're a 10.
It's NOT all about being a supermodel, having perfect teeth, makeup etc. Personality is 90% of the equation.24 Reply- +1 y
Haha. Who gets offended on farts?
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@Boundless_Curiosity You'd be surprised how many women I've known who got really upset by farts, even burps. I just can't understand why!
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Lol. Strange
No one can be born perfect although everyone are perfect in their own ways. Like if you accept yourself and are comfortable with your skin and all is good then you are perfect in your own way. Perfection is something which can't be obtained naturally. It is there only to mark the end point.
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For me, I know I'm perfect because I accept my true self and I'm comfortable with my skin and personality. I love to see other people accepting themselves because "Being yourself" or "love yourself" is what makes the person perfect in my eyes. I always appreciate such self acceptance. For me that is the perfection.
I honestly don't care much for looks. I care, don't get me wrong but if it's between a chick that's a 6 and a chick that's a 10 if I like the 6's personality more, we click better, (even if the 10 is nice and I get along with too) I'm choosing her. They just need to meet a certain threshold and beyond that idgaf. Cause like, what's the difference, the face? Oh wow, your facial structure is a bit nicer and your lips are thicker. Big deal, who cares?
But beyond that if she's caring, funny, charismatic, and hassimilar values she's a 10 in my book.20 ReplyNothing. Nothing makes a woman or a man a perfect 10, because nobody is "perfect". We all have our flaws and somethings we're insecure about. Most people are delusional when it comes to rating themselves.
The average individual is a flat 5, that's why the word "average" exist. Most people fall between a 4 and a 6. 6 is actually good, you're above average. What do Most people give themselves? A 7. 7 is 70% percentile, so if Most people are indeed 7s, it wouldn't make sense that 80% of humans are 70% percentile (which is about 30% of the population).
Beyonce, who is very attractive is what a realistic 8 looks like. A 9 means someone absolutely stunning with great genetics that they make it into the 90th percentile. Definitely NOT that many people.
Next time, don't be too worried about being a fictional "10", but rather be the best version of yourself that you can possibly be, and stop comparing yourself to other people.00 Reply
+1 yA perfect 10 for looks maybe exists but personality a perfect 10 lol nope. A woman being nice and sweet 100% of the time and never being bitchy, bad mood, etc doesn't exist. We're all human and have flaws. Usually a 10 is being generous liking someone a lot. But a perfect 10 nope, no one is perfect.
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Well, in all fairness, this is an ambiguous question. If part of your view on a 10 is “being nice and sweet 100% percent of the time” is what it is, than that’s what it is. No one said that person has to exist😉 however, it is important to know what you want in a partner overall.
475 opinions shared on Dating topic. Out of all the girls with perfect bodies and cutest faces, the one above all is the only one who rather took care of retarded kids and elderly people with dissabilities than regular jobs. That girl answered her calling.
I dont call her perfect 10, I call her the closest thing to human perfection I have evet encountered.11 Reply500 opinions shared on Dating topic. Big eyes, sharp jawline, straight teeth with good placement, plum lips, v-shaped jawline, arched brows, high cheekbones as car as face is concerned. With the body she should have a slim hourglass figure with a perfect waist to hip ratio so like 34-24-34 (10 inch difference between waist and hips) and a tight body.
Then on top of that if she can hold a conversation, is intelligent and articulate and also funny and sweet then she’s a 12/10. An angel on earth.20 Reply- 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yOn physical appearance alone:
1. overall beautiful face
2. tantalizing eyes
3. captivating smile
4. long, shinny hair
5. smooth skin
6. overall healthy fit physique
7. good posture
8. proportional measurements
9. graceful, supple moves
10. elegant, flattering outfits20 Reply Well, as a woman these are the things I'm aiming for in myself:
- Beautiful face
- Great body
- Stylish and graceful
- Charming personality
- Gets on well with relatives and brings family together
- Able to make and retain long term friendships
- Intelligent and active, possibly volunteering
- Is an excellent cook and possesses strong soft skills
- Good heart and not afraid to show vulnerability
- Above all is asertive and doesn't let men or women abuse her10 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. She needs to be able to talk with her eyes she needs to be confident she needs to be smart wise intelligent she needs to be strong she needs to be independent she needs to be happy she needs to know how to smile and laugh but herself and other things she can't take things too serious she doesn't talk about other people she's kind and she has a beautiful heart if she has all the above in the outside is just extra bonus
10 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Her character if I feel a deeper connection to her and we have the same or similar sense of humor.
If we have good conversations as much as silly ones.
If she has a patient and caring character that also proves to be trustworthy.
Then I'd consider her a perfect 10.10 Reply- 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yThere is no such thing as perfect, because if you HAVE perfect you would get bored. It is just human nature. The key for me though is the elements are all there. Great body, and being on the same page with wants and desires.
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Of course. Have you ever heard of the saying 'too much of a good thing?' The meaning to that is long and winded but the bottom line is something that is generally desirable or beneficial can be detrimental or unpleasant if experienced excessively
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Well, in a teasing way as a rebuttal😉 if it’s people we are talking about… Say, if you become bored easy by too much perfection, what if one of the qualities that make such a person a 10 to you was spontaneity? Gave you the space you needed to be your own person in a loving way that wasn’t clingy?✨ Still bored? Would you rather sail the seas of other people, or be in a committed relationship with that perfect 10.
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Ahh yes, those are indeed qualities which can be fun and certainly would not cause boredom, but where you and I differ is, I don't see them as perfect traits, yet necessary for the longevity of a relationship. In my younger days I would have new relationships at the drop of a hat, although I can say with total honesty I never cheated once. Now I have found the one I want to spend my life with, and she does indeed have all those qualities. But I don't see her as perfect, just perfect for me.
Perfection is unattainable. But, what makes a woman great for me is simply being a partner through life.
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I cannot easily describe why my wife is ideal to me, but I most definitely did not settle. When you see someone and are attracted to them physically, as you get to know them, they may become ugly. However, usually a person you're not initially ga ga over physically may become more attractive as you get to see who they are as a soul.
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+1 yThere's no such thing as a perfect 10 man or woman. That's what makes dating and relationships interesting. You always have to deal with your partner's faults.
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Must have flown for the air force, naval aviators are all10s😃
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@ilistengood OK, you found one exception :-)
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@AviatorTom Let’s take your experiences out of the equation😌 what would constitute a perfect 10 in your eyes?
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@gracekkim Since you asked so politely. A perfect 10 woman IMHO would have the following characteristics:
intelligent, IQ of at least 140
superb health, very fit
superb chef
excellent personality, gets along great with everyone
positive attitude on life
gorgeous body
loves pets
loves to have sex with her man, likes both dominant and submissive roles
good with children
wants a family
can juggle both family and career
comes from an independently wealthy family
As I said before, I don't think any woman could be a perfect 10.
3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Personally I've never considered anyone, man or woman to be a perfect 10.
Just what is the definition of a perfect 10?22 ReplyHard to say. I mean she'd have to be really pretty, great body, great personality with a real spark about her that draws you in. A good example would be scarlet johansen, Natalie Portman, Emilia clarke, Eva Green, Alexandra Daddario. Often it's their eyes. Often they have like non obvious physical and personality flaws and imperfections that just seem to work and make them stand out from others.
10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nadia was a perfect 10 and so is this girl:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFuxhi45ZbM11 Reply587 opinions shared on Dating topic. She has to be mature and able to carry-on an interesting conversation. She has to be able to call me out on my bullshit, but support me when I need it. She has to be able to stick up for herself and speak her mind. She has to be kind and respectful. In terms of looks/body I like under 5'6", slim and natural. I really like dark features like on Latinas, Italians, Indians. I like longer hair on them, but in general I prefer shorter dark hair.
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+1 yAlthough I'm a woman, and a straight one at that, in my opinion, no one is a perfect 10. Not in this world. No ones perfect.
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I don't think anyone can ever, since nobody's perfect. Just telling the truth.
1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I also feel like these questions, even if they're not originally meant that way, become a trap.
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Because if a man is honest and describes his ideal woman it can become something that he focuses too much on, without being open to being surprised. He also can receive a lot of approval or criticism from others on here.
And if a man decides to not be open because of those risks, he'll say something that's just a bunch of platitudes and doesn't really answer the question. But if it's sweet enough, he'll still get a bunch of approval from people who don't like being held to a high standard.
I feel like it's one thing to say it in private in a conversation. But in public like this I don't see there being much point
In this times hardly anything will make her perfect 10.
But the right answer is for you to love that person.
But that's 9 to be honest. To love and to be the mother of your kids now that's 10.10 ReplyNot being real, is a requirement. Because no real woman is a 10.
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In my subjective personal opinion, and only to me...
- Kind/positive
- Accepting/nonjudgmental
- Open-minded
- Intelligent
- Strong sense of humor
- Strong work ethic
- Patient; not easily offended or bothered
- Politically moderate (not too liberal or conservative)
- Strictly heterosexual
- Monogamous
- Nerdy; into video games or superheroes
- Tall (5'9" and up)
- Curvy/thick/plus-sized
- Feminine
- Redhead, strawberry blonde, or blonde
- Young; between 20 and 30.
- Not a feminist, progressive, or far-left
- Not shallow or superficial
- Not mean-spirited or negative
- Not closed-minded or stupid
- Not arrogant or conceited
- Definitely NOT queer, or a part-time lesbian ("bisexual")
- Definitely NOT polyamorous!
- Doesn't already have kids (without a father figure)
- Not too skinny
- Not masculine or butch
- Not born male or a man "living as a woman"
349 opinions shared on Dating topic. A girl who is loyal, won’t cheat, will respect you and take care of you through good times and bad times. A girl you can trust.
besides that, a virgin. Maybe contrasting skin, hair, and eye colors. Symmetrical and young looking. Maybe she has a beautiful voice. I think tall girls who are slim thicc are amazing. Maybe 5’10-6’ with very long hair and a big butt.10 Reply
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Is this true?
It starts with the eyes and the looks but ends with the personality and intelligence. If she's beautiful but is a bitch and dumb as a sheep, she won't make it past 3. For me to wanna have a one night stand with her she must be at least 6, which means beautiful and nice personality.
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There are 2 tens. The beauty part and the most important both beauty and brains. In the looks department, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
What’s under her beauty is much more complicated, but in short, she is respectful, has dignity for herself, independent, selfless, etc.00 ReplyI feel like hair. Sometimes when i have perfect outfit and make up but if my hair is mess I don’t like myself. So hair is the most important thing.
20 Reply660 opinions shared on Dating topic. Includes° physical body must be attractive and appealing° intelligence° self-respect° softness, tenderness and kindness° absolutely able to handle any circumstance° genuiness
20 ReplyVery healthy skin and hair, overall health and vitality. Beauty standards change but this never goes out of fashion
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+1 yWell to start they have to be a woman... that's really the only standard i have.
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+1 ywhat makes a woman a perfect 10 is everything not just her physical body but also her personality and her heart and her actions of good.
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+1 ySmart.
Gorgeous hair.
Gorgeous face.
Straight white pretty teeth.
Medium to big size breasts.
Gorgeous eyes.
Slim thick body with a big butt.
Thick tights and legs like Roselia
That's a perfect 10.15 Reply- +1 y
Roselia? Like the Pokemon?
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@itsjustlew: My bad lol. Meant Rosalia
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Ooh she’s gorgeous. I’m glad to see more guys liking girls with those body types/thick thighs.
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@itsjustlew: Definitely. I like my woman thick in the right places.
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@itsjustlew girl you're gorgeous
+1 yBeauty inside and out. Good soul, beautiful face with a perfectly shaped body and humble yet intelligent. There extremely rare, yet there are a few out there... Sadly most 7's, 6's, and even 5's think there 10's.
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+1 yDark hair, ice blue eyes, nerdy cute but drop dead sexy, twisted/dark sense of humor, sports butt and b-cups
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I assume you like Meghan fox?
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@itsjustlew that's my girl! She has a doppelganger in the adult entertainment industry. Just an added plus. Her name is Megan Rain if you were curious.
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts.
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+1 yI've never seen an actual 10 out of 10 especially without makeup.
That's a unicorn, but I have seen close to a 9 but even that is hard to find.10 Reply - 917 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yA beautiful girl that is sweet and caring that would only be with one guy for the rest of her life would be a 10.
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+1 yThey have to be through and through marriage material, so far I've only met one woman who hit that mark
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Did you marry her? 😁
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Unfortunately not but there's still time I just need to go to Warsaw
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Well get over there!
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I should shouldn't I, maybe next year I can afford to do it
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+1 yThe ranking system is about how close a person meets a guy's ideal partner, so if they are a 10 in looks & personality, then they are what that person considers perfect.
10 Reply 10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. What a perfect 10 is depends on the guy doing the evaluation. No one woman is perfect for everyone.
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Perfect answer
+1 yBeing an woman itself a perfect 10. Doesn't requires any physical attention to be perfect 10.
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Don't say that girls hate it.
Top model tier looks with the right personality to match.
10 ReplyThe way she presents herself, dresses, her intelligence, how she treats people, for me is a sense of humor.
20 ReplyHeight 5'8 or above
Must be tall
Must have thin lips and none nose
Must look like a woman
Bisexual
Like threesomes
And older
Thats the perfect woman20 ReplyThere is perfect 10 eventually she's going to talk.
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+1 yCute, funny, down to earth. Honestly I don't think the looks matter as much if somone is just easy to be around. I mean, she could be sexy as hell but if I can't stand to be around her than she is an immediate 0/10.
00 ReplyThere is no such thing as a perfect 10. No one is perfect. But now I can say that looks are just a bonus. A woman who is loyal, trustworthy, who is not entitled, is funny and doesn't blame me for the mistakes of men I don't know is close though.
00 Reply344 opinions shared on Dating topic. 1. don't be fat
2. Make your body accessible (reasonably)
3. Don't be too much of a pain in the ass10 ReplyWhat makes a woman a perfect 10 is not just the way she dresses it's her characteristics and her smile and everything
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+1 ynobody is perfect. The important thing is to find a place on the throne of the heart, even if it has flaws.
10 Reply1K opinions shared on Dating topic. what is like beauty is in the eye of the beholder someone's 10 might be someone's 5 to be a 10 it has go deeper than just beauty
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+1 yIt's intangible. Either she is or she isn't. That's all there is to it.
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+1 y@gracekkim In my opinion, shared hobbies, compatible values, shared political & religious views, & a compatible lifestyle makes a woman a perfect 10.
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