Girls, How to give a female friend a compliment?

[Anonymous]

How to give a female friend a compliment. Most friends tell me my compliments are back handed.

[M4Y3DA]

it depends on the friend I guess. but if you don't want it to seem like you're into her you could just compliment her dressing sense, personality, hair or make up skills

complimenting her appearance won't hurt either. it's good to be specific with compliments, it feels more genuine than just "you're pretty". maybe try complimenting her smile, eyes etc.

it feels good when people notice subtle details about us and knows how to appreciate. detailed compliments can easily make someone's day

[Asker]

I was going to say you’re cute. Lol I’m glad I didn’t. I can break it down and say something like, “your beautiful smile brightens my day”. That wouldn’t come off as me liking her will it?

[M4Y3DA]

well it does come off as you liking her but who cares! I bet you do!

[Asker]

Nah not a bit. Trying to change up an imagine. I’m seen as an outspoken, mean person that loves to laugh. Yet everyone especially women likes talking to me even though I’m “rude” or “mean”. But I’m loving too I think.

[Asker]

I’m also cocky is what I heard. I’m just confident.

[M4Y3DA]

then it's more likely that it'll come off as you liking her because of your usual cocky personality
don't overthink~it's just a compliment.. if you feel that way then say it.. she won't block you now because you called her cute , will she?

[Asker]

No we now work together and she’s weird now. Being sensitive with me and easily offended by something I said and she misinterpreted. Thanks for your input

[Empery]

Why would you want to