Girls, which of three do you find more important in guy for love and having him as boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Beautiful/handsome

Muscular/strong

Tall

[_Maya_]

You give some crap options if I am honest. I guess if I am forced to choose between those options I would choose muscular. My reasoning is that it tells me that he most likely takes care of his body and is handsome. I could give af less if he is tall. My ex was shorter than me. Handsome is subjective... big time. Of course I am going to have to be attracted to him. My friend might not find him attractive so there is the subjective part of it. Being healthy is important to me so that is why I made that choice. The real thing that is going to attract me is personality. That is why I say you give some crap choices. Of the three things that you list none rank high on my list of things I look for in a relationship.

[SueShe]

Why do you guys always place such an importance on looks and outer appearance. None of those appeal to me because every single of those assets (if you can call them assets) reveal absolutely nothing about the character, personality and intellect of a person.

A handsome guy, just like a strong one or a tall one could have a despicable character and thus be absolutely toxic people that I would not want to be associated with.

Why is it that trivial look and muscular topics are always what you guys think is the most important to a woman.

Looks fade with time while a good character and personality will stay a lifelong. What is more important? To me, certainly none of the options you gave us.

[Kayla45]

Well my husband is tall, beautiful, and handsome. So I would personally choose a mixture of those three things. :)

[Asker]

And if you had to pick one?

[Kayla45]

Tall

[menina]

If we're just talking about his looks and not his personality, I would say handsome. That's the first thing that gets my attention.

[Nikki1989]

All of those are not remotely important. If you think this is all it takes, you will be very disappointed.

[mandyfire98]

Out of these three? Handsome