If you had a falling out with a girl and years later you follow her on social media and she follows back, what does it mean besides no hard feelings?

[Anonymous]

[ManInChains]

It means she thinks you want to be friends and can easily tell you she’s happier with whoever she’s currently with in an attempt to hurt you

[Asker]

Based on her social media she is a single mom so what you're saying is wrong

[ManInChains]

🤷🏻‍♂️ won’t be for long

[Asker]

If she is a single mother how would her getting with someone else hurt me?

[ManInChains]

Unless your not the jealous type knowing some other man has his hands all over her when you used to 🤷🏻‍♂️ if it were me she’d be dead to me

[Asker]

I definitely am the jealous type but she is a single mom so some other guy already had something else in her so it doesn't really bother me. In a way I feel validated because she was playing games with me and now she is a single mom which says a lot.

[ManInChains]

So is my ex who has two kids with different dads and she currently isn’t even with either of them. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Would it hurt you to see her with another guy or would you feel like you dodged a bullet?

[ManInChains]

Both

[Anonymous]

There could still be possible feelings lurking around. Very every little tho

[Asker]

What if we never dated and just talked?

[Opinion Owner]

You can still have feelings for that person... do you guys hang out?

[Opinion Owner]

I ask cause if she touches you that'll help a bit to determine if she likes you...

[Asker]

No we don't hang out at all?

[Opinion Owner]

"I ask cause if she touches you that'll help a bit to determine if she likes you..."

Any more questions I can help out? Have you said anything since y'all follow each other now

[Asker]

Exchanged a couple of messages but nothing that led to anything. I asked her out and she didn't respond

[Opinion Owner]

Okay okay was this before or after the argument

[Asker]

The argument was in the past I think maybe three years. Everything I'm telling you is after and like years later.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay when you ask her out. Cause I'm wondering why she didn't say anything

[Opinion Owner]

Hey I think you should just re talk to her... clean slate

[Asker]

I actually asked her out like a week ago. I don't think she is interested otherwise she wouldn't have ignored it. She has a baby and is a single mom now so I wonder if that's the reason

[Opinion Owner]

Could be

[Asker]

I didn't understand why she would follow back because if we aren't gonna talk it's no reason to follow each other

[Opinion Owner]

I think there may be lingering feelings but it's hard being a single mom. Try a slower approach

[Asker]

So maybe it's not the best time to do anything? By slower approach what do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Just talk to her be her friend...

[Opinion Owner]

She probably doesn't have time to date right now especially if her kid is really young

[Asker]

That is kinda impossible to do because she doesn't trust my intentions. If I try to be her friend she will think I'll have ulterior motives

[Opinion Owner]

I mean you do don't you? Lol like you want to be more than friends with her right? That's okay but you can let her know you wanna take things slow... go her pace. But if she's not answering you to go out I'd back off a bit and maybe start as friends or something

[Asker]

I definitely like her and I liked her since I met her years back. Like I said she doesn't trust me at all so I don't know how to be her friend.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Well small steps maybe ask her to talk in person whenever she's available. Maybe apologize. If you want good graces

[Asker]

I asked her if she wants to get pizza sometime? No response. After that I just left it alone. Maybe it's not the best time or she isn't interested. I'm hoping for the best. Maybe she will eventually get back to me

[Opinion Owner]

Im wishing you the best!