If a girl follows you back years after a falling out does that mean no hard feelings or she is interested in reconnecting?

[Anonymous]

[Zenpanda]

It's never no hard feelings I'd the falling out caused you to not talk anymore. Reconnecting is an option though.

[Asker]

What if the falling out stemmed from an argument?

[Zenpanda]

Then that's still the case. It all depends on how bad it was and how their stance on it is now. Or even how your stance on it is. People change and overcome.

[Asker]

Got it. By following back does that show they are willing to communicate?

[Zenpanda]

Yes, in what length that means is up to them. So I'd just start with a hello and how have you been.

[Asker]

I did that and they didn't respond which kinda confused me

[Zenpanda]

Give them time. They might be nervous to talk to you again.

[Asker]

Possibly. I hope I didn't rub them the wrong way with some of the messages I sent. She told me that her phone was the same so I took it as she wasn't interested in talking