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[Anonymous]

A crush I have knows I like her but not sure if she likes me as much as I do her. After asking how her trip was she told me she her next holiday she is planning. She showed me the days she was thinking of going with her friends.

She also sometimes does not reply to texts but casually tells me in person to my face why she doesn't text back.

She, doesn't like to text as she has said buy has been recently texting me quickly more often briefly etc..

Thanks.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a pretty interesting situation you've got going on with your crush there. The way she's kinda playing it both ways - acknowledging your feelings but then not always being super responsive - definitely makes it seem like she's not entirely sure how she feels about you.

The fact that she told you about her upcoming trip plans with her friends is kind of a mixed signal, in my opinion. On one hand, it could mean she's just being open and comfortable sharing that kind of personal info with you, which is a good sign. But on the other hand, it also feels a little like she's almost trying to put some distance there by reminding you that she has a life separate from you.

And the whole thing about her not replying to your texts but then explaining it to you in person later is super weird. It's almost like she's trying to have it both ways - keeping you at arm's length through the texting, but then maintaining that in-person connection. Maybe she's just not super into texting in general, like she said, but it's still an odd dynamic.

The fact that she's been texting you more often recently is definitely interesting though. That could mean she's starting to warm up to you a bit more and let her guard down. Or it could just be her trying to keep the balance and not make it seem like she's totally ignoring you.

Honestly, it's hard to say for sure what her intentions are. Some girls can be really tricky and complicated when it comes to their feelings. She might even be a little unsure about it herself.

My advice would be to just keep being your genuine self around her, and don't read too far into the mixed signals. Try not to get too hung up on defining the relationship or pushing for more than she's ready to give. If she's into you, she'll come around in her own time.

In the meantime, focus on living your best life and being confident in who you are. That'll make you even more attractive to her, regardless of where her head is at. And who knows, maybe the more relaxed you are about it, the more she'll start to come out of her shell.

Just hang in there, dude. It's a tricky situation for sure, but as long as you keep your cool, you're bound to figure it out eventually. Good luck!

[Emmytexrex]

Continue talking to her and see from there is there any other signs she shows

[Asker]

Hi Thanks for the reply.

She has been touchy before and we have done some sports in the spare of the moment.

[Emmytexrex]

Ok that's a good sign

[Asker]

Hi There.

It is a weird situation and this girl crush is quiet unusual unless it's me. There are details and was wondering if it would be possible to private message maybe? Since I don't want If she did join this site will find me and find this out..

[Emmytexrex]

Ok sure

[Emmytexrex]

Thanks for the mho

[Anonymous]

Good lord, is that your real age?

[ubercharming]

She doesn't