Why do woman have such toxic mindsets?

[MLGbreezy]

Something that always bothered me even when I started dating is the toxic ass mindset woman cling too. I don't know if I’d call it a victim mindset but I think that could be argued. They have this image of just how every men in there head is and it’s just fact they all want one thing and that’s to fuck and anything remotely sexual or even hinting at that is typical man. God for forbid a woman make some kind of media that’s a bit revealing the shock and disbelief they have is crazy. Then in terms of dating they have they always have to compare you to the last guy or the next guy. It’s one thing to look out for red flags or patterns but that’s something on your end if you’re going after similar men. It’s just sad because as a guy when I look for advice on woman that have done me wrong something I learned and was told early on is that lot every girls is the same and it’s something I still look to when dealing with a new girl that doesn’t move the same way the last girl did. Yet when I hear or see woman’s opinion even in my daily life it’s alway all men are so trash and niggas ain’t shit and typical men. They literally spew the misogynistic behavior they always accuse men of on the daily as if it’s no issue. I think what’s worse is it’s just accepted as typical female behavior there never really called out on it: although I’ve definitely seen a rise in men and woman who still have som sense kinda being done with the bullshit that these types of woman love to regurgitate. Where does this shit even come from I feel like it’s something you have to learn from somewhere or someone for them to be so stubborn they can’t even fathom that they are wrong in there thoughts process it’s even scarier that these people refuse to even considered looking at things from a different a different perspective or that they might be wrong.

[Unit1]

complex answer. Its a multi faceted issue. Factoring in social media, mass validation, mass praise for just being born as a female, being told "you are enough" and "men should this and that", males giving women free meals and gifts and funding onlyfans and chaturbate for women's feet, exclusively digging up only sad relationship stories, its no wonder many women made themselves unnegotiable and men seeing it as a lost cause or turn into passport brothers.

[MLGbreezy]

Well to be fair I don’t think there’s anything wrong with passport bros I feel like that’s a very sound course of logic. Why stay somewhere your not wanted? And even myself have been talking to an amazing woman who’s not your conventional woman in the sense that she post very revealing photos and dances on IG but in terms of how she treats me she is very kind and supportive and caring does all the bells and whistles you’d want out of a girlfriend. And she’s not from the U. S her treating my so well was legitimately such a difference from how I’ve been treated by woman here in the U. S that I literally convinced myself she was playing me because it was to good to be true even though she has insisted otherwise.

[MLGbreezy]

I think men from here have a big part in why things are the way they are but they aren’t the main issue. I think men are currently in such a desperate state that they are both just settling for anything here even though they should be able to do better and at the same time leaving because they are sick of the shit. I’m not really sure what the best course of action should be but the stances have there issues

[Unit1]

Passport brotherhood it is. A lot of women have no idea about love.

[mobiusforniner]

Sounds like you’re targeting shallow and shitty women. In life we don’t often get what we want, but we do get what we expect. I know a lot of women who don’t behave in the manner you present. So for whatever reason, you find these women initially appealing or attractive which, reveals something about yourself. Fix that, and you will fix the problem.

[emeraldsaphire]

Honestly I've met a lot of women like this, and I've done it too. When I'm in female spaces women want to empower themselves and feel good about themselves. I'll complain about some guy I knew or dated. Then one of my friends wanting to validate me will share how the same thing happened to them. Other women wanting to help and not feel left out will join into the chorus of men suck.

I don't think any of us believe all men are trash, but we will say it because it's a meme and it kinda reminds us of the sisterhood. It's a scary world and we like to huddle up.

I've seen Men do the same thing too, I think the difference is men get called out for how they treat women. And Women get called out for other things.

[overlord337645]

im suprised more women haven't cussed this out yet well they probs can't dk if this site lets you cuss but id imagine not and also seriously as @prettycrumblbb said ¨stop generalizing¨

[KrakenAttackin]

Dating apps and social media have really plugged directly into the worst aspects females and amplified them 1000 fold.

[Anonymous]

Feminism, woke culture, social media, and toxic mainstream media such as MSNBC and CNN.

[MLGbreezy]

It’s really sad to see like I’m sure I have a bit of biased since I’m a guy ofc. But still the stark difference in how I see guys conduct themselves and how woman at least a lot of the ones in the U. S is deeply concerning not just in dating but in the views on the opposite gender in general it’s actually an issue and it’s crazy that generally speaking except when brought up and talked about there really isn’t anything begin done to change that whereas when it’s men it’s toxic masculinity and all these bs movements taking a small minority and acting as if it’s the majority.

[MLGbreezy]

I remember at work not to long ago I was talking with these two girls and we were talking about fitness and the gym and the girls said they don’t like going to the gym when I asked why they said because men act as if they’ve never seen a girl before when they go to the gym as if every man in the is drooling over them. I stayed quiet and the called me out trying to imply I was one of those men.

[MLGbreezy]

I stayed quiet because I know the recent talking point for a lot of guys in the gym is how uncomfortable girls have made it especially for new guys who already nervous trying to get into working out in the gym. Because woman have the exact mindset that the two girls from my job have they think that every guy is out to get them or wants them when most of us are to focused on what we are doing to care about them. Or just wanna get in and out me myself have felt that same way and then there are the guys who would be interested in a girl and are to afraid to approach out of free of being labeled a creep now because of the toxic behavior and mindset a lot of these woman have it’s actually startling.

[mobiusforniner]

Let’s blame society for why we don’t get what we want. The key to happiness isn’t controlling others; it’s learning to control yourself

[Finchie40]

Because of feminism And social media

[MLGbreezy]

It’s very sad to see not gonna make claims it’s very guy but I see a lot of guys working hard to sword improve nowadays but I just don’t see the same level of effort remotely from majority of woman and the continue to perpetuate really fowl and sexist talking points.

[Finchie40]

Best way for a guy to improve , is to never let a girl to walk over you , A girl should be your partner working with you , not against you , If a girl is bringing misery into your life , you are best to kick her ass to the curb where she belongs and let some other guy deal with her toxicity , Never stay with a girl that doesn’t want to grow and achieve with you , she is a fucking user , that needs to be on the streets not under your sheets

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Stop generalizing

[MLGbreezy]

If you read the entire post you’d see that I’m not generalizing I clearly said that there is a rise of men and WOMEN who are sick of other woman bullshit.

[Anonymous]

That's how they're programmed