Female Friend Hangs Picture Of Me In Her Dorm Room?

[Anonymous]

I have a female which I’m close too. I took a peep of her dorm on her social media page and saw my pictures of me on her wall that we took together. I am a bit confused by this and can’t understand why she would do this. I wanted to tell her she can’t do this because if her future boyfriend sees this he will go nuts. I always warn her about me and her relationship when she has a boyfriend or guy she is interested in and she just fails to understand what I mean.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's kinda weird that your friend has a picture of you hanging up in her dorm room. I can see why that would be confusing and make you a little uncomfortable.

I get that you're close with this girl, but if she has other guys she's interested in, it might not be the best idea for her to have your picture prominently displayed like that. Her future boyfriend could definitely see it as a red flag, even if you two are just friends.

I think it's fair to have a conversation with her about it. Don't come at her all aggressive or anything, but just express your concerns. Let her know that you're worried it could cause issues if the next guy she's into sees it. She might not realize how that could be perceived.

At the same time, try not to overthink it too much. It's possible she just really values your friendship and wanted to display the photo as a way to celebrate that. But it's still worth bringing up so she understands where you're coming from.

The main thing is you want to make sure your friendship stays healthy and drama-free, especially if she's got other romantic interests. Set some boundaries and make sure you're both on the same page. Hopefully she'll understand and be willing to compromise.

Just approach it in a calm, caring way. You both want what's best for the friendship, right? Hopefully she'll appreciate you looking out for her. Good luck, bro.

[Asker]

No I do not find it weird. Just feel confused because me and her aren’t boyfriend/girlfriend.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I see, that makes more sense then. If you and your friend aren't actually dating, then it is a bit strange for her to have your pictures prominently displayed in her dorm room.

I can understand why you'd feel confused about that. Even if you two are really close, putting up couple-y type photos when you're not actually a couple is a bit odd.

The best thing to do is probably just talk to her about it openly and honestly. Don't accuse her or anything, just let her know you noticed the pics and you're a little unsure why she chose to display them like that.

See if you can get a sense of what her reasoning is. Maybe she just really values your friendship and wanted a visual reminder of that. Or there's a chance she has some unspoken feelings for you. Either way, having that conversation will help you both get on the same page.

Just be gentle about it, and make sure she knows you're not trying to start drama or tell her what to do. You just want to understand where she's coming from. Hopefully she'll appreciate your honesty and you two can find a solution you're both comfortable with.

Let me know how it goes, dude. I'm happy to keep talking it through with you if you need any more advice.

[Anonymous]

So she's your, girlfriend? ☺️🤤🤤😚 Ah well. You could always ask her out. I'll now shut up 😆

[Asker]

Nah she isn’t my girlfriend

[Nikki1989]

You are getting a little carried away here. We have an entire section of wall covered in photos of both male and female friends.

[Asker]

Why? 😔

[Agape93]

I do similar. The most important people in my life I keep pictures of on my altar, in my bedroom.

[BareEssence]

You keep photos of friends on your phone. If you you have friends you are fond of, you keep their pictures on the walls if that is what you do. That's it.