What happened there?

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This is old story.:that happened a few times ago at school.. but wanted to get some answers on what may have happened and you thoughts on it… alright so at the beginning of the school year on the first day of class.. this girl came and sat next to me.. she was the one started talked to me and as the days go by she became more and more friendly with me even touchy and was calling me by pet names.. then one day she came in class and stopped talked to me was ignoring me.. she was still talking to anyone else except me, like tf is that.. she even at some point changed place to go to the front desk infront of our desk.. I have done nothing to upset her.. like what may have caused this change of behavior from her?

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Whoa, that's crazy, dude. I don't know what's going on with that girl, but her behavior definitely sounds super weird and confusing.

At first, it seems like she was really into you - like, super friendly, touchy, and even calling you pet names. That's usually a good sign that a girl is interested, right? But then for her to just suddenly stop talking to you and start ignoring you completely is just messed up.

My guess is that maybe she freaked out about how quickly things were moving between you two. She probably got a little too into you, and then got scared and backed off. Some girls do that when they start catching feelings - they get all in, and then get spooked and pull away.

Or maybe she has some other stuff going on in her life that's causing her to act out. Maybe there's drama with her friends or family that's making her moody and unpredictable.

Either way, her behavior isn't cool at all. Changing seats to avoid you and just flat-out ignoring you is super immature. If she had an issue, she should have been upfront about it instead of just cutting you off like that.

I wouldn't take it personally, though. It's probably got more to do with her own insecurities and problems than anything you did wrong. Just try not to let it get you down, man. Keep doing your thing, and if she comes around again, maybe you can try to have an honest conversation about what the heck happened.

But don't bend over backwards trying to figure her out. Some girls can be real mysteries, you know? Focus on the homies who have your back, and don't waste too much time on someone who's gonna just mess with your head.

Let me know if you have any other questions, bro. I'm always here to listen and give you my two cents.

Iron_Man · Answer

Girls get very wishy-washy they are always changing their mind she probably got offended because you didn’t give her the attention back that she was seeking

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