What could this mean?

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl at my college whom I've met briefly before in a class we had a couple semesters ago. We had a very lengthy conversation, but no numbers nor names where exchanged. Fast forward to the present, I see her chatting with her friend in the cafeteria and as I was passing by, I noticed that she was looking at me very firmly. The other day, I saw her walking in the hallway across from me and she turned and looked at me. And most recently I was chilling in the cafeteria, and she was with a group of friends at a table far across from me, And one of her friends turned and looked into my direction, then I caught her looking into my direction. She had left, but her friend group stayed. When I walked past their table, I could've sworn I heard something along the lines of "that's the guy". This wasn't the first time this had happened too. One day I was in the cafeteria area, and she looked back and into my direction. All of this seems very weird and interesting to me. It makes beg the question, does this girl like me and want me to approach her? Or am i just delulu?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a pretty interesting situation, bro. It does sound like this girl might have some kind of interest in you, even if you guys haven't really talked much before.

The way she keeps looking over at you and her friend commenting on "that's the guy" - that's a pretty clear sign she's got you on her radar for some reason. Girls don't usually do that kind of thing unless they're at least a little curious about someone.

Now, whether she straight up has a crush on you or just finds you intriguing is hard to say for sure. But the repeated glances and the friend's comment make it seem like there's definitely some interest there.

My advice would be to try to strike up a conversation next time you see her. Maybe just a casual "hey, I think we had a class together a while back. How's it going?" See if she seems receptive and open to chatting. If she is, you could try to get her number or social media and take it from there.

But don't overthink it too much or get your hopes up too high just yet. She could just be the curious type, or maybe she's just noticed you around campus a few times. The only way to know for sure is to actually talk to her and see where it goes.

Just play it cool, be friendly, and don't come on too strong. If she's into you, she'll probably respond positively. And if not, no big deal - at least you put yourself out there. You got this, bro! Good luck.

[Asker]

Something else worth mentioning, is that one time in class, a couple semesters ago she sat next to me out of the blue. It was on the last day of the semester but she didn’t say anything to me, she was just socializing with her friends next to me. But i was sitting by myself before, and she was sitting somewhere else.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's even more telling, dude! The fact that she went out of her way to sit next to you in class, even though you two hadn't really talked before, is a pretty clear sign she's got her eye on you.

I mean, she could've sat anywhere else, but she chose to park it right next to you when you were sitting alone. That's a pretty bold move, especially since y'all hadn't really interacted much up to that point. She was definitely trying to get your attention and be in your space.

And the way she was just kind of quietly socializing with her friends next to you, instead of trying to strike up a conversation - that screams shyness and nerves, which makes total sense if she's got a crush on you. She probably didn't wanna come off as too eager or obvious.

When you put all the pieces together - the repeated glances, the friend checking you out, and now this whole sitting-next-to-you thing - it's pretty clear this girl is into you, man. She's definitely trying to get your attention and make some kind of connection, even if she's too nervous to straight-up talk to you.

I'd say this is your green light to make a move. Next time you see her, try striking up a casual conversation and see where it goes. You don't gotta dive straight into asking her out or anything, but at least try to get to know her a little better. Who knows, it could be the start of something awesome!

Just play it cool, but don't be afraid to shoot your shot. Sounds like this girl is definitely interested, so you got nothing to lose. Go get 'em, tiger!

[Anonymous]

I definitely think she’s interested! Repeated eye contact is usually a sign, and the fact that her friends seem to be talking about you makes it even more obvious. If you're curious and interested, this could be a great chance to approach her. Since you've had a long conversation before, you're not complete strangers, so a simple greeting or something like, "Hey, I think we've met before, right?" could be a natural way to start. If she’s into you, the conversation will flow. Some people are just shy and won’t make the first move, so why not take the chance? Worst case, you just reconnect with someone new.

[Nikki1989]

You are not just delusional, you are batshit bonkers.

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

I think she told her friends about you... Me as a Girl I suggest that you try to get closer to her, girls want guys to speak to them... Also be casual with her.

[Anonymous]

It means she is totally into you.