What could this mean?

[Sunset_city]

Hey, I split with my boyfriend few months ago. We live in different countries but had split our time between the two. We were together 3 years, the split was awful, he ended things and tried to come back, I decided I didn't want to as to be honest it wasn't healthy. Since the split he has been vile, degrading and just nasty. He is blocked on everything. He can only get to me on a game, that I have distanced myself from. Now the question I want to ask is he now has a new girlfriend which hurts but I'm fine with. It's like welcome to hell for her!. But when I saw a recent photo of them together, he was wearing a necklace that I had brought him. The necklace was sentimental to us both because it was how we met, and also I called him my king i used to kiss it everytime we were going to be apart ( soppy i know but it was our thing) . Why would he still wear it? And why would he want to? . I removed my necklace because all it did was bring pain of what we once was. And I wouldn't dream of wearing it if I was with someone new. Getting a male perspective because I don't get it. 🙃

[PrettyPriya]

Honestly, I wouldn't even let it bother you. He isn't wearing it for any sentiment from the sounds of the breakup in your details. He probably just likes the way it looks and it never had any emotional value to it like it did for you. Even if he pretended it did, it likely meant nothing to him.

He sounds immature and the type of person that generally treats people poorly. That is what leads me to believe he never thought much of the necklace. He could also be doing it to make you angry if he knows you will see it.

No matter the case, just be glad you are rid of him and don't overthink what that means. To you, it should mean nothing anymore. He is an ex and keep him that way. Sounds like a truly awful relationship and not something I would want to revisit.

My question to you is why are you looking at his social media accounts? I would have left this guy in the dust and completely blocked him out of my life.

[Sunset_city]

I get what you're saying I shouldn't snoop! It does me no good! I think it's become a habit. I've just realised I've become abit of a stalker! I need to stop over thinking things and move on completely. I just found it bizarre why he would still wear the necklace. But then his thought pattern isn't like a normal person. Thankyou for being brutally honest with your opinion I don't think I've heard the last of him personally but I have been good remaining silent to his nastiness via a game that I have backed off from at the moment. Its been quiet for 10 days, but he's killed me on it ( war game) so I think he's satisfied which that right now. Here's to moving forward 💪

[PrettyPriya]

@Sunset_city You are most welcome. I know it is hard to let go and you want to know what he is up to even though he sounds like a total jerk by your description. Try to find the good in things like you just did in your reply here.

You are free and you don't have to deal with his nonsense. I wish you the best of luck and all the happiness free of a bad relationship.

[Staximus]

I don't know why the hell people get their hopes up for somebody who doesn't even live in the same country.

[Sunset_city]

We split the time between our countries, so it wasn't an online relationship! And it worked for us while we were together 🤷‍♀️

[In_Trance]

None of this matters. Stop watching him and move on

[spartan55]

Probably just likes how it looks.

[Guy13]

Power….💪

[Guy13]

Firstly, he hopes you see him in it. Secondly, it’s probably the only time anyone has honored him in that manner. He’s projecting an expectation to tge some now. Equivalent to a woman’s phraseology “Come Correct”. Does that make sense ⁉️
I think he’s going to miss you soon…