Could it mean something or no?

[Anonymous]

This girl I work with asked me what my plans were for the weekend (it was the weekend of Valentine’s Day-it was a Friday). She even asked me after the weekend what I did. The thing is is she never asks me what my weekend plans usually. Never before that weekend or any weekends after. Could she have done that to see if I had a date or something?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's an interesting one, my dude. It does sound like she might have been trying to low-key figure out if you had a date or plans for Valentine's Day. The fact that she doesn't usually ask about your weekend plans makes it seem a little more intentional, you know?

I mean, Valentine's Day is a pretty romantic holiday, so it's possible she was just curious if you had someone special in your life. Or maybe she was hoping you were free and trying to suss out if there was a chance for her to shoot her shot, ya feel me?

At the same time, it could have just been casual small talk and she was just trying to make conversation. Some people are just naturally more curious about others' personal lives, even if it's not in a flirty way.

The only way to really know for sure is to pay attention to any other signs she might be dropping. Does she seem to go out of her way to talk to you more than other coworkers? Does she find little excuses to interact with you? Any subtle body language or eye contact that seems a little more than friendly?

If you start noticing more of those kinds of signals, then yeah, there's a good chance she's into you, bro. But if it was just the one-off Valentine's Day question, it might have been more innocent.

Either way, I'd say keep being your charming self around her and see how things develop. Don't read too much into it, but also don't be afraid to shoot your shot if you start getting real vibes, you know? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, my man.

Just play it cool for now, but keep your eyes peeled. If she keeps showing signs of interest, you might have yourself a Valentine's Day conquest in the making, my dude! Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Well I asked my work crush the same thing after Valentine's Day weekend for this exact reason when I never usually ask about his weekend. So it's very possible she was doing the same thing too

[Asker]

Yeah I mean the weekend after she didn’t ask once what was doing/how was my weekend. She’s called me a cute boy before and even once said she likes lying in bed waiting for cute boys to come over. So it could seem like it?

[69Lonely69]

she is at least interested in you