Why did she text this back is she upset?

[WinCx3d]

My friend is always falling asleep on our plans. Sol ast night i called her out on it and she admitted she is always falling asleep and she texted back “i keep falling asleep🤦🏽‍♀️”

Why did she use that emoji

[Sevenpointfive]

yeah, she's upset because she doesn't want to cancel but she's gotta sleep some time! she can't always be out lookin for dat dick with her homegirls.

[WinCx3d]

You think she’s truly upset?

[Sevenpointfive]

wouldn't you be if you were too tired to go out slutting?

[WinCx3d]

Well this keeps happening so that’s why i called her out

[Sevenpointfive]

maybe she's dating that guy you're seeing? check her phone and then his phone

[Med_guy1978]

She's frustrated she keeps falling asleep and missing you. She should check her iron levels as low iron can do that, you can dose off just by sitting down.

[WinCx3d]

Are you sure that’s it

[Med_guy1978]

If you are referring to the possible iron deficiency, then she needs to get tested or just give blood. I think if she's low they won't take a blood donation. Or if she goes to a pharmacy, she can get some iron supplements and advice. She could have low blood pressure.

[WinCx3d]

I’m asking you think she’s frustrated with her missing me or is she just using that emoji

[Med_guy1978]

My guess is she's frustrated but I don't know the whole story.

[WinCx3d]

I’ve tried to see her like an hour after she gets off i call and text her and she doesn’t answer the phone

[Screenwriter]

She might not be getting enough sleep period, or she has a medical problem. I'd suggest she see a doctor if the former is not the case.

[WinCx3d]

But why continue to agree if it’s a strong possibility she won’t be awake she said she tried to stay up but she can’t

[Screenwriter]

She is in denial that there's a problem. This is often the case when someone has an obvious problem. You might suggest that she see someone. Almost sounds like narcolepsy. But someone did say could be as simple as an iron deficiency. Find out about whether she's getting enough sleep.

[WinCx3d]

Ir could she be avoiding me and using sleep as an excuse?

[Screenwriter]

And s simple bloof test commonly done at yearly checkup costs nothing. At most, if she has insurance, she'll spend $10 to see her primary care doctor and get those tests done and tell her doc she's having a sleep issue.

But unless this person is a close friend of yours, suggesting all this may fall on deaf ears. How well do you know this woman?

[Changiis07]

Does she have a lot going on that she prioritizes other things or people?

[WinCx3d]

We work two different shifts i work in the morning and she works 2-10:30 pm

[Changiis07]

that could be a reason

[WinCx3d]

Could she be avoiding me on purpose?

[Changiis07]

You would have to find out, maybe call her and ask what is going on and let her know how it makes you feel. Sometimes people are busy or sometimes it's a sign they no longer want to be your friend, but she did reply so a phone call wouldn't hurt you know

[fish5505_87]

I never heard of that term, falling asleep on plans? Either she's not well, as stated below, or she's avoiding you for some reason. Curious?

[WinCx3d]

Well why does she keep agreeing to plans if she might be avoiding me?

[fish5505_87]

That's why I said curious, maybe she has something to she wants to communicate and then as plans draw near, she gets nervous? Something along those lines?

[RedInnocent69]

Because she feels stupid admitting she’s falling asleep

[WinCx3d]

Really? Why is that stupid

[RedInnocent69]

To be fair, it does sound pretty stupid…

[WinCx3d]

And I’ve asked to see her multiple times this week

[RedInnocent69]

Why don’t you have a nap date where you go over to her house in your pyjamas and sleep together?

[WinCx3d]

She doesn’t answer the phone when she gets off

[Jamie05rhs]

What time do you plan things? Maybe try planning to meet up earlier in the evening.

[shortster]

She feels embarrassed about it

[WinCx3d]

Why is that

[shortster]

She let you down

[WinCx3d]

But this keeps happening I’ve asked to see her multiple times this week

[shortster]

Ask her if she is doing okay?

[seeyounexttuesday]

she's smacking her head

[WinCx3d]

Why?

[seeyounexttuesday]

because she's exasperated with herself for falling asleep.

like homer going "D'oh!"

[WinCx3d]

Do you think she might be doing this on purpose

[seeyounexttuesday]

falling asleep? I don't know

[WinCx3d]

No saying she’s sleep but not really sleep since it’s happened 4 times

[seeyounexttuesday]

oh, I don't know. it seems fishy.