Internally, do men and women see each other the same way?

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Men, often value women for beauty, nurturing, and emotional comfort.
Women, meanwhile, view men through lenses of strength, provision, or emotional safety.

Maybe men and women see each other the same way, on the inside, but it obviously gets lost in translation because these perceptions exist on an emotional level which lost in translation because the physical world assigns the language to each gender.

Meaning on the inside, a woman might perceive a tall strong handsome man who seems nice, as the equivalent of what a man sees a pretty feminine women who seems nice.

Because most people are too caught up in the **pleasure of doing things**. We chase the feeling, not the meaning. Guys might chase sex or status, girls might chase attention or emotional highs—and yeah, both sides can be guilty of that. But underneath it, we’re often looking for the *same* thing: connection, validation, peace, being seen.

But instead of slowing down and asking *why* we’re drawn to someone, we just run on autopilot. So women might see a guy's strength and think “he’ll make me feel safe,” but not consciously. Guys might see a girl’s softness and think “she’ll make me feel whole,” but again, not consciously. It’s all *unspoken*—because it’s beyond words.

So yeah, maybe men and women do see each other the same way—but we’re so caught up in our own distractions and desires, we don’t even realize it.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

This perception of yours may be accurate for people that have reached a certain age, perhaps past their 40s but not really for the young ones, starting with puberty and going into the early to mid-thirties.

In my opinion, his group of people are more affected by the looks of the opposite gender rather than by what their subconscious tells them. They don't really care so much about character, personality or intellect but more about the physical aspect. This applies to both genders whereas males tend to be more prone to listen to their sexual hormones than women because women bear all the risks and are more down to earth.

Past the end of what would be considered the predatory age around the mid-thirties, those desires tend to flatten out and true values are more the norm than the exception.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

I do. And I have since as far back as I can remember. It made childhood awkward lonely and difficult and romantic dynamics troublesome, however relationships are more fulfilling than I imagine they’d be if I was mentally chained to a world of superficial stereotypes.

MrChinaski · Accepted Answer

I disagree with almost everything the OP said, but no it is always different to be a friend of a woman than to be a friend of a man. Speaking as a man, you either are attracted to a woman or you are not going to invest in the friendship. Being attracted and acting on the attraction are very different things.

aceleon · Accepted Answer

Only way for us to see each other that way is if we don't have attraction to each other.

RavVid · Answer

I'm pretty sure that in the darker recesses of my reptilian brain there is a proto woman hard wired and every woman is pattern matched to "her". Quite convinced my reptilian brain is completely in command and my neo cortex brain only gets to pick up on a few grace notes like she is nice once she is approved by RB.

I don't see why girls would not be the same.

Vampirelover_12 · Answer

I don't see a guy who's been with multiple women as a good thing. They're skanks. Not husband material. Just for a good one night, then you ghost em. Sorry boys, that's the absolute truth.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, people are people. We all share the same basic human emotions: joy, sadness, anger, fear, love, and both genders generally seek connection.

Sluttt · Answer

Women see penis and money, men see boob and vagina

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

I know someone who is married to a woman taller than him. Three kids

Eempriyanka · Answer

No, men and women are NOT SAME in any manner or way

Anonymous · Answer

Probably yes, depends on every individual man and woman.

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