If a girl texted you after midnight while at a party that she is thinking about you, how would you interpret that?

[Anonymous]

[AnonAndrew]

Depends on the context. If she's a really good friend, she might just be being nice.

Other than that, I'd think she probably likes me.

[Asker]

If she knows the guy like her wouldn't that message send mixed signals?

[AnonAndrew]

If she knows the guy likes her and does that anyway, then it sends mixed signals.

If she also likes the guy, it's not a mixed signal.

If she doesn't know the guy likes her, then it might send mixed signals, but not on purpose.

[Asker]

She knows he likes her because he said it verbatim but she doesn't feel the same

[AnonAndrew]

Then maybe she's messing with him, or trying to get attention and affirmation.

[serious]

Well, I would interpret that I must have made a good impression on her so that she is thinking about me and that I am a good trustworthy man.

[glennos89]

The fact that a girl makes a move by herself would surprise me no matter what time it is. Most woman aren't doing that

[BobbyLee789]

Totally flattered, maybe that I'd be lucky enough that she likes me

[Asker]

Would you think she had interest in you?

[BobbyLee789]

Definitely. I'd feel grateful and lucky.

[Jerre]

That she wants to have sex

[Asker]

Why would you think that?

[Jerre]

Because she called him so late at night

[Anonymous]

That she been drinking.

[Danny_dan92]

Pretty good sign

[Asker]

Would you take it that she likes you?

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah

[Asker]

What if she didn't like you in that way and did it to be nice?

[Danny_dan92]

Well then she’d be sending mixed signals, cause in my experience when girls do this, it means they find the guy attractive and or like/love him

[Asker]

Really? She couldn't just be reaching out to a friend?

[Danny_dan92]

Past midnight? Also texting the guy saying she’s thinking of him? Not a chance

[Asker]

If what you're saying is true, why doesn't she give him the time of day? She doesn't want to hang out with him or anything

[Danny_dan92]

Again. You’re giving mixed signals

[Asker]

Is that why the guy got upset because he felt she was playing games?

[Danny_dan92]

Yes.

[Asker]

Why get upset? If it was only one time she may have given him mixed signals he shouldn't be getting upset

[Danny_dan92]

This is going in circles

[yotaman99]

That she likes me

[Asker]

Why?

[yotaman99]

Because she’s at a party thinking of me or she’s drunk

[Asker]

What if she doesn't like you in that way and did it only to be nice?

[yotaman99]

Well then she must think I’m small and not really a man

[Asker]

Why you say that?

[yotaman99]

Because she's playing games with me and im tiny.