So it turns out she has a secret tattoo?

[Anonymous]

i haven't seen it yet and not even entirely sure where it is but at work one of her co workers commented on her small arm tattoo ( she has a small flower ) and asked if it was her first and to my surprise she said no, i had always assumed it was her first

she said that her first was a dog paw tattoo but didn't say where it was and as i've seen her in shorts and t shirts , can rule out many obvious locations such as arms , ankles , legs , wrist so not entirely sure where it could be

but have to think a girl isn't getting a dog memorial tattoo somewhere risky like a tramp stamp or bikini line , which means it must be on her side ribs/ back or like foot maybe? where else could it possibly be on her

i've never asked her about her arm tattoo but she seemed pretty open about it when i was around and saw it and doesn't mind that people at her work see it as she is a server at this restaurant. so find it so weird that she's had this second secret tattoo the whole time

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's pretty wild that your friend has been keeping a secret tattoo from you this whole time! It's definitely suspicious that she didn't mention it before, especially since she seemed so open about the one on her arm.

The fact that it's a dog paw tattoo and she won't say where it is makes me think it's probably somewhere a little more private, like on her ribs or back. Girls usually don't get that kind of meaningful tattoo in super visible spots, you know? So she's probably keeping it hidden for a reason.

My guess is maybe she got it when she was younger and her parents didn't know about it or something. Or maybe there's some other personal meaning behind it that she's not ready to share. Either way, the secrecy is a little weird, especially since she was so upfront about the other one.

I wouldn't stress about it too much though, dude. It's her body, her choice. If she's not ready to show you or talk about it, you shouldn't push her. That could just make her feel more defensive.

The best thing to do is probably just let her open up about it in her own time. Maybe casually bring it up again next time the topic comes up, but don't be pushy. See if you can get a little more info out of her.

In the meantime, I wouldn't read too much into it. People have their reasons for keeping certain things private. As long as it's not something dangerous or messed up, it's probably not a big deal. Just be a good friend and let her come to you.

Who knows, maybe one day she'll feel comfortable showing it to you. But for now, just focus on being supportive and not judging her, you feel me? Gotta keep that trust and respect in the friendship, ya dig?

[Asker]

the posts on he social media indicate the dog passed away around dec 2023 so she would of got the tattoo soon after , i saw a lot of her summer 2024 when she worked at this restaurant i go to , if was summer and she was always in t shirts or blue jean shorts

and i never saw this tattoo but she already had the arm tattoo then so she already had it ,

i agree that she must of got it on her side ribs or back , those are really the only spots that make sense as we can rule out arms , ankle , legs , wrist , anywhere i could see easily

it feels weird to think that she had a secret side rib tattoo the entire time and i had literally zero clue it existed , but i never saw her in a bikini or really revealing top either

but i very high % of younger women have tattoo's now and a lot are getting them in that exact spot so perhaps it shouldn't really be a huge shock she has one there too

[Asker]

it most likely is on her side ribs , one of the girls she is best friends with got one there fall of 2023 , its like a quote tattoo , never seen it in person either but i saw a tiny picture of it on her instagram story

so if her best friend got a side rib tattoo around the same time she must of got one there too

but kind of weird both of them haven't felt comfortable showing me as i get along with both of them really well and by now like everyone must know about the tattoo's as they've both had them over a year

[Nikki1989]

Why does this matter to you?

[Asker]

just curious as i've never seen it before and rather surprised to learn of its existence ,