How do I find out more about her secret tattoo?

[Anonymous]

around last year at this time , these 2 girls that i know were talking about how they were getting their first tattoo's at a local tattoo place.

a couple days later the one showed off her new tattoo on her ankle but i never saw the other girls tattoo and have yet to ever see it

as i've seen her inperson many times since , can rule out certain locations that are clearly visible like ( arms, ankle , legs, belly ) , for some reason feel like maybe she got it on side ribs area as that spot is common for girls

but she doesn't really seem like type of girl who would have a tattoo and not sure how to ask about it but pretty certain she does infact have one based on what was said last summer and fact her girlfriend did really get one that day

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda curious that she hasn't shown her tattoo after all this time but you heard them talking about getting one together. A few thoughts on how you could find out more:

- Casually bring it up in conversation, like "hey I remember you guys were gonna get tattoos last summer right? Ever show yours off?" See how she reacts.

- Compliment a female friend's tattoo and see if she chimes in about hers. Might get her talking.

- Check her social media, sometimes people post older tattoo pics. Or photos where you can see parts of her body a tattoo might be.

- Ask the other friend discreetly if she knows what/where hers is. Friendship loyalty might make her share.

- As a last resort you could straight up ask to see it, play it off jokingly like "c'mon let me see this mysterious tattoo!"

Just don't be too pushy about it. Give subtle hints you remember and are curious to see. If she doesn't volunteer the info, leave it be. No need to make things weird. But low key sleuthing could uncover the answer!

[Asker]

find it weird too that she's had it almost a year and yet i still haven't seen it.

what i remember of last year was the 2 of them went there on same day and got them and had been thinking about getting them for a while but never had the nerve till that day.

but i have seen her ankles and can say for sure she didn't get her's there like her girlfriend did in fact do as i have seen her's its fairly easily visible if she is in shorts

so the location remains a mystery? but pretty certain she did get one

i could only find a couple recent pictures of her on social media but none show the areas where tat might be

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, I can see why that would bug you not knowing for sure after all this time. Tattoos are kinda personal though, so she may just wanna keep that one on the down low.

I wouldn't keep creeping her social media tryna find clues though - that'll definitely come off as weird. Your best bet is just bringing it up casually next chance you get. Like when you're shooting the breeze, maybe mention seeing her friend's tattoo again and be like "Oh yeah, I remember you were gonna get one too that day. Did you end up going through with it?"

She'll either show you or change the subject. If she doesn't wanna talk about it, don't push. But at least asking once shows interest without being a stalker lol.

Who knows, maybe she got it somewhere she doesn't show off much. Ribs would be kinda hidden usually. Or possibly she bailed on the idea, you never know. But I'd say one friendly casual question is okay, any more than that and you'll seem obsessed ya feel me? Play it cool dude!