Does she have a problem with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 19-year-old Black girl. There’s an older Asian lady, probably in her 30s or 40s, who sometimes stares at me or looks at me at work. Why does she do that? Its other black people at our job. Im asking because I always get racially profiled or non black people assume Im dangerous because I’m black.

[Anonymous]

Well I’ve heard Asians can be some of the most racist. I’ve seen it as well. But could be the fact that a lot of people are getting black fatigue.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Iron_Man]

why don’t you stop and ask her in a nice way say, excuse me, ma’am, why do you keep staring at me all the time is there something I did wrong to upset you

[WhitneySnow]

Could be she dislikes you or could be she’s just curious about you. Or looking off into space in your general direction.

[Pterodon]

You sound overly sensitive about being black

[Asker]

I can’t help it

[Asker]

Well some non black women act like their danger around me so I can’t really help how I feel about being black

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe you look like someone she knows

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[Danny_dan92]

Ask her what her problem is

[Aldan1609]

Racism

[Asker]

Who me or her?

[Aldan1609]

Her. Asian people are well known racists, I'm afraid. They come from a place where there are no other races and they only like white people and themselves.

[Asker]

That’s okay

[Asker]

But why she staring at me specially it’s like over 50 black people where we work at. And a few Hispanics and a few other Asians.

[Aldan1609]

I happen to know they're racist. That's okay? Really? It's a fact of life I guess but no, it's not okay. She's not staring at you specifically. There's nothing specific here, believe me.

[Aldan1609]

It's anyone with dark skin who's not Asian.

[Asker]

Oh thanks Im not very dark by the way I guess I am to her

[Aldan1609]

To most Asians I've noticed

[Asker]

Thanks

[Asker]

Why she target me out of all the black people at the work?😭 it’s some literally dark skinned or brown skinned

[Asker]

I never seen her look at other black people

[Asker]

She seems like she’s good friends with this white dude at the job

[Aldan1609]

Asian people seem to respect white people just because they have power or whatever, I'm not sure. They never see black people where they come from so they think of them badly

[Aldan1609]

They don't know anything about other "dark" people and they're kind of racist themselves

[Asker]

Thanks !😁

[Aldan1609]

No worries, I'm sorry, just that I've seen it a lot 😭

[Asker]

It’s okay