How to deal with your wife when she's not in the mood?

[Anonymous]

[notadumblonde]

There are times when I'm defintely not in the mood for sex. However I've never denied my boyfriend. Whether it's right or wrong I would rather fake a quick orgasm than deny him sex

[Nikki1989]

You man up, have some class and respond with empathy, respect, and a focus on maintaining connection.

[Yannae]

You respect her wishes. Just keep an eye out and see if it's not a repeating thing. If she's never in the mood, the attraction is gone.

[capriVib]

I would empathize, and then depending on the situation, either offer solutions to the problem or let it be.

[babet]

Honestly, when she’s “not in the mood,” it feels like trying to negotiate with a mysterious force of nature unpredictable and powerful! Sometimes it’s like she’s got her own secret remote control, and you’re just waiting for the “play” button to be pressed again. Best advice? Master the art of patience... or become a professional snack provider!

[OneViewpoint]

If it becomes a pattern you have 2 options. Divorce if kids aren't in the picture. Or just go get your needs met elsewhere with no apologies. Understanding and being supportive behavior only goes so far. Where's the understanding and supportive behavior on her part? She can sit at home and be moody and asexual all by herself if she doesn't want you.

[barbie]

If she’s not in the mood, don’t take it personally she might be tired, stressed, or just needing space. Show understanding, offer emotional support, and be patient. Pressure kills intimacy; genuine connection builds it. A little kindness goes a long way in moments like this.

[petitedollbabee]

You respect her choice and leave it alone. Don’t be a piece of shit who pressures or coerces her into having sex when she doesn’t want to.

[blunty]

Never mind, don't bother,

[wkhan_87]

I know how to change her mood immediately

[Anonymous]

With diplomacy, and respect.

[4ngelic]

this morning

[AngryCarl2]

divorce