Guys, truthfully, would you get attention else where if this happened to you?

[Anonymous]

guys, if your girlfriend (of any length of time) only bashes you and makes you feel like crap, anxious and depressed would you talk to another girl if the girl comes to you when you’re out with friends? when a guy is out with a group of friends eating dinner and two girls decides to sit right next to you and you like their energy, you guys exchange Instagram and send memes to each other. even though it’s not a vailed reason would you do it because your girlfriend is affecting your mental health and you wanted some fun energy from a girl?

[Anonymous]

To you it’s not a valid reason, but I think to a lot of men it would be. Men like being where they’re appreciated. So if I had a girl like that we wouldn’t be together for long. I’m not going to go out looking for attention, but if someone showed me some attention that I could just talk to w out feeling like I’m being scolded or talked down upon then yes I’d talk to her. It might even push me to breakup w my girl quicker then I wanted to. The first girl needs to be kicked out quickly, she’s too much drama, childish, immature as well.

[Orion84]

No, because I wouldn't stay with someone who treated me like that, in the first place.

I would have kicked her to the curb before it became an issue of "getting it somewhere else."

[ProbablyClueless]

I wouldn't do the instagram thing. If I connected with a lady like that I would probably break up with my girlfriend in short order, because it would open my eyes to how bad my relationship was.

[Asker]

oh ok so if he is still texting and calling me does that mean he only wants to have sex? he did tell me yesterday that we are not in a relationship

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... It certainly sounds like he only wants to have sex, but I don't have much information to go on.

[Kaneki05]

No, because she wouldn't be my girlfriend anyway. This sounds like a good reason not to be with her right?

[Asker]

hmm yes you are right. ok so if he is still calling and texting me still its only to have sex probably?

[Kaneki05]

Probably, if a guy is desperate they'll put themselves out of their way for whatever.

[jahaims]

I'm not stupid enough to date an immature person in the first place.

[Asker]

who’s immature? me or him?

[jahaims]

Both.

[Asker]

yes i’ve come to the conclusion that i am immature. we are bumping heads so much that all we do is argue.

[jahaims]

Mature before being in a relationship or it is pointless

[Ironic_Method]

I wouldn't be with someone like that in the first place.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't entertain another woman while in a relationship - I would simply break up with someone if they treated me like dirt.

[Hellraiser1984]

Id be gone

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Asker]

nope what?

[Opinion Owner]

You've forgotten your question already?🤦‍♂️😆
If I'm in a relationship I'm in that relationship till the end. I'm going to end the relationship before anything else. But if she's doing all the things you say and this is an isolated incident then I'm most likely going to go off by myself.