What do women say about you?

[thegreenyogi]

To make this more entertaining tell me one positive thing and one not so positive thing women have said about you. It could be a compliment and something they have found frustrating about you or your behaviours in general.

[OneViewpoint]

The Good - That I'm interesting, unusual, unique, confident. I have no idea how they decide this when we've never even spoken. But I get that all the time. Sometimes it's because they get second or (3rd) hand information from other people who know me or know of me.

The Bad - That I'm really hard to get to know. Yeah I do that consciously. I actively use my friend group as a barrier to keep people away. Slow it down. I'm not gonna give you all the details you've heard rumors of on day one. I'm not retelling my life story to someone I'm not gonna keep around. I'm gonna get to know you first. I suggest you do the same with me. No patience for that? Bye!

The Ugly - I don't need you to like me. Most people are disposable to me. And I'm ruthless about keeping the people around me pruned down to a small group of people I actually care about. A lot of women get really hurt by that. But I'm not playing games or trying to get anything from them. I'm just brutally direct and honest. Apparently some want me to lie to them.

[HawkPerception]

I've gotten a decent amount of compliments about my eyes and more than a few times about my general knowledge about many topics like "How do you know so much about everything?"

As for the insults, I've been told I'm negative, depressing to be around, pessimistic, ignorant, and arrogant.

It's easier to remember the insults than it is to remember the compliments. The negative stays with us more as humans.

[Sunrising]

I would hope the women would say I was handsome, very intelligent, humorous, super fit, terrific making love, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. All true of course 🙂

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!!

[SotiCoto]

Generally they don't even know I exist any more, and I'm fine that way.
Honestly I haven't been aware of any particular rumours about me since University. Girls from events at work used to tease me routinely because presumably I come across as harmless and weird... but that didn't really bother me.

[CaptainSmartass]

That I'm hot and they get all damp in the lady region when they see me.

Simples...

[thegreenyogi]

Good to know.

[andreasderjuengere]

A recent compliment from someone with poor English skills: ''You fuck nice''

Not so positive (from THEIR point of view): ''You are stingy''

[RHK36]

I look young, am nice and like that I stand up for other people. Negative wise I'm too honest, can be an asshole because of it and lack confidence at times. This is feedback I get at work from coworkers and customers.

[Raam1994]

Positive about me - Everyone says We love to talk to you and being with you

Not Positive - Nobody wants to lead a life with me. Because I don’t think much about future and all. I am a sort of person who wants to live in the moment.

[Shiprex]

I can be funny and kind while at the same time coarse and insensitive.

[Dongie]

I have a very quick temper. She said 0 to 60 instantly. The rest of the time she said I was nice and sweet.

[WonderingManII]

Positive: you are sweet.

Negative: Ew yuck.

[Ironco]

They always compliment my blue\green eyes, and how nice I am.

But I'm Gen X, so most don't get my sarcastic side.

[LiamJHayden]

I've been called "tall and sweet." I've also been called a snob.

[msc545]

I've gotten "you are really smart" a lot from women. Not much else really.

[Panthero80]

They say I am a nice guy and cute. At least that is what I have heard them say.

[NathanDavis]

you're so stubborn!!

[Anonymous]

Many women find me handsome. Some women also say that I am like a child; but it does not bother me

[Anonymous]

They mostly ignore me :P

[wkhan_87]

Positive they say me

[eagle1951]

i'm too old