Guys, what compliments do you want to hear from women?

Question

That will make your day and make you happy? Women like to be called beautiful.

ProbablyClueless · Accepted Answer

I've felt really flattered when women tell me how safe I make them feel.

WhiteBoyChill · Accepted Answer

“Hi handsome”

MrOracle · Answer

Most guys (i. e., guys who aren't ultra-hot) have never* been told they look good or are handsome or whatever, even when they're well-dressed and groomed. I would say that virtually all of them would welcome anything positive about their appearance - and they all know they aren't ultra-hot, so don't exaggerate, at least to that extent. * Such compliments from your mom or your spinster aunt don't count.

But what most men want even more than compliments are RESPECT and APPRECIATION. Most men expect to have to EARN this, but very often even when they DO earn it, they don't get it. Whether it's providing, protecting, leading, or sacrificing, most guys know they're expected to do these things in a relationship, and they don't expect respect and appreciation if they aren't doing those things, but Feminism has trained women to withhold respect and appreciation of men even when the men are killing themselves to go above and beyond, and that's wrong and pretty evil in my opinion.

Women used to understand the "you get more flies with honey than with vinegar" approach (i. e., positive feedback is FAR more likely to motivate a man than will negative feedback), but again, Feminism has purposely taught women to always have a negative attitude towards men (and to view him as an oppressor), so it's not surprising why so many relationships have problems.

Women want to be LOVED. Men want to be RESPECTED. Even classic wedding vows reflect this: men vow to love their wives, women vow to respect their husbands.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

"Thanks to you, [insert X issue here] makes a lot more sense now. That's impressive. And I've got your back on this."

Simple words, yes. But effective.

The sort of thing I wish I'd had years and years ago.

Instead, it was "not feeling it" this, "you can email me, but you can't call me" that, "you can't talk to her, just because" the next thing, "you're too much like her ex" the next thing, "you'll only make everything worse" the thing after that, "changed my mind, get lost" the thing after that, and "go get counseling" the thing after that!

Where I sought encouragement and security, I mostly found only hostility and manipulation.

I finally meet a girl who isn't that way, and she has to return to New York to look after her sick mom, leaving me with no options anymore.

RingOfFire · Answer

I read a lot of good responses here. I'd have to go with that I don't enjoy compliments so much about my looks as I do about my achievements. I like when someone recognizes something I worked hard to achieve and admires it... especially if it seems sincere. Compliments about my looks feel kind of embarrassing. Although I do have to say that I feel a natural inclination to pay a compliment to a woman about her looks if I find her attractive. I think that in general there is a difference in the kind of compliment men and women like in this regard.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

A lot of girls compliment my eye color. Probably because it's blue, and girls like blue-eyed guys for some reason. My eyes change shades of blue with my moods, and some girls from my past could tell that. It used to freak me out, lol. On weeks when I go out more, I probably get compliments on my eyes 2 or 3 times. I don't think they're pretty though. They look girly. I want darker eyes, like almost black! I'll trade with someone, lol

RavVid · Answer

Yeah we know we can't go to far wrong if we say a woman is beautiful.

The compliments I most remember were on the surface critical of me but with an undertone of approval that X was very masculine of me.

When women I know say that I'm looking good, I know very well they are saying I am not as scruffy as I was yesterday.

AviatorTom · Answer

Compliments aren't needed. Just don't yell at me for little things.

Nik1hil · Answer

Women need to be feel wanted, Men need to be feel needed.

Your compliments should aim to show that,

-"You need him."

- "You desire him, and are dependent on him."

- "Compliment his masculinity."- anything that he does Masculine appreciate it.

- Never reject anything he offers, even if it's useless. Accept it and then guide him sweetly to what you actually need from him!..

Unit1 · Answer

Definitely not about things i had no control over ( height, eye color, accent). I get it, the girls May love these but if it was not like so, then i'm pretty sure it's fake shallow plastic love.

More about the things i actually did, that composed me e. g. personality, hairstyle, feeling valued.

Billlewis · Answer

That I'm the sweetest guy she's ever known, that I'm the most talented oral servant she's ever had, and although this isn't necessarily a compliment, I love it when she tells me that I have the smallest dick she's ever seen, as well.

Xaxztjs · Answer

This may sound dumb but really anything would be nice. I don't think a women has ever complimented me in my entire life. But I would say any compliments about my personality would be better than anything else. I feel this way because I truly think I'm a very good/wise person yet nobody seems to take note of it

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I seriously don't care to hear compliments from anyone including women.

Means nothing to me except only one time years ago where a woman told me my mom raised a "fine good young man"

It's the only compliment til this day that matter to me and made me feel very good she would acknowledge my mother, beside all the other compliments I have received in my life means ish to me.

Lionman95 · Answer

Generally appreciation that you see a guy and what he´s doing. For him that´s encouraging to keep going and shows him that he´s on the right path.

Andres77 · Answer

I’m so glad that I can always depend on you. Or. you make me feel so safe.

JSmuve · Answer

Nothing. Compliments from women don't really mean anything. Most just say it to be nice or get something from you. If she wants to make my day, then she could do things to make my life easier or show she cares about me. Actions over words.

Avicenna · Answer

It's always great to be complimented on personality

Leme2 · Answer

I dont get complimented much so I really appreciate it when I do. I like to be called handsome, intelligent, in good shape, trustworthy, beautiful, sexy, strong, kind, noble, or humble.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Men so rarely get compliments that we often assume it's an attempt at manipulation.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

None, because i have no idea how to react, so i just akwardly look away and pretend i didn't hear it

richardcory · Answer

I like being thought of as "interesting"

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Just being smiled at works. Compliment my vehicles, ask me how my day is going, comment on the weather, etc.

ColHathi · Answer

All of them. All of the compliments :p Just don't say it unless you're being completely sincere.

TrillXHippy · Answer

Compliments seem fake to me. “Oh you’re not ugly… but you’re not cute enough to get a girlfriend” they never say that but that’s what it sounds like

mattclark242 · Answer

well women call me nice shy and cute. I like cute. sometime not the shy part.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

That we are good men and that you love our penises.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Of course and you always tell me i have a good size penis 😅

PointTaken · Answer

I rarely get compliments but the one I got last night was "you have really nice eyes."

DaBiggestBird · Answer

I think “you are Da Biggest Bird” would be cool. I am indeed da Biggest Bird

dragoblack · Answer

I'm... cute, sexy, have a nice butt, have defining features besides my outfit and hair that are attractive mainly.

nawtee_me · Answer

Just tell me you have a surprise waiting when I get home and it will be like the longest day ever, but I would enjoy it all day...

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Not super big in giving compliments so I don’t feel the need to receiver them

Likes2drive · Answer

Would love to be called handsome , but I never hear that

bernhardh · Answer

From women (married or divorced females), none. From girls (unmarried females), any.

OddBeMe · Answer

I want your semen inside me. Kinda doesn’t get better.

sureitis · Answer

i believe that what it comes down to is we really just need to feel useful and appreciated

Reorx · Answer

Appreciating the sacrificese I make for her. No complements needed, just appreciation.

Jltakk · Answer

"You're pretty cute" is one I've never heard and probably never will.

BLP11520 · Answer

Hopefully they appreciate my sense of humor

anon123th · Answer

None, I know where I stand with women, so any compliments feel disingenuous

Jhunitor · Answer

Truth. We don't want compliment as a tool you use to make us feel better. We want compliment about what you really like about our appearance, intellect, etc

robocop666 · Answer

I have been told many things, none of which I will repeat here.

justabuddy · Answer

I want to see you, that was cute ( when I do something stupid),

Blacksnake285 · Answer

Compliment my muscles, I’ve had that by unprofessional nurses lol

Christoff92 · Answer

You make my day which tons of women would tell me.

peedy · Answer

Oh God  That was amazing

spartan55 · Answer

Any. And I'm being completely serious.

SnowedIn · Answer

That she appreciated my help.

exitseven · Answer

Nobody does it better.

TheAfrikan · Answer

“ man I love your style” plus “ yo bro I really love ya looks”

CassandraSpender · Answer

"You got a purty mouth."

soe11 · Answer

Smile is sufficient for me

Jadebamboo · Answer

I respect your advice.(If its genuine.)

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Anything, really. Simples...

Sparkie460 · Answer

Whatever it is, I want it to come from her heart.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Quit acting like you care, woman

Guardian45 · Answer

ANY sincere compliment from a woman!

Jerre · Answer

That I have a beautiful cock.

Fuentes · Answer

They need give me money lol

Amur8711 · Answer

A simple "You're handsome" goes a long way.

normandi · Answer

Last night was amazing

BlackJeep · Answer

"You can do it"

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