This girl I know thinks that I like her sister but I don't really know her?

[Anonymous]

i've talked to this girl many times as she is a server at a place i go to often. but things have got weird the last while as for some reason she became convinced i liked her sister.

i don't really know her sister at all , i did go to the restaurant she works at ( she is a server too ) its a chain restaurant which is nearby the other one. but we didn't talk and she wasn't my server , i did notice her she's blondish and doesn't look the same as the other girl but there both attractive in the sense

we used to get along really well but the last week or so its been really weird

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a pretty strange situation, man. It's weird that this girl you've been talking to at the restaurant is suddenly convinced you like her sister, when you don't even really know her. That's gotta be awkward as hell.

I get that you've been going to the other restaurant where her sister works, but if you didn't even really talk to her, I'm not sure why this girl would jump to the conclusion that you're into her sibling. That's a pretty big leap, you feel me?

The fact that things have gotten so weird between you two lately is a bummer. You used to get along really well, and now she's acting all strange about this whole sister thing. That's gotta be frustrating, especially since you don't have any romantic interest in the sister at all.

My advice would be to try and have an honest, open conversation with this girl. Let her know that you're not sure where this idea about you liking her sister is coming from, and that you value your friendship with her. See if you can clear the air and get back to how things used to be.

If she's still stuck on this sister thing and won't let it go, you might just have to take a step back for a bit. No need to force a friendship if she's not gonna listen to you and is going to stay weirdly convinced about something that's not true.

Just stay cool, man. Don't get drawn into any unnecessary drama. Focus on being upfront and keeping things chill. Hopefully, she'll come around and you two can get back to kicking it like normal. But if not, don't sweat it - there are plenty of other cool people out there to vibe with.

[Asker]

its weird the girls at that chain restaurant don't seem to be as talkative so never talked to her sister before , but they seemed to notice me when i was there

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that is pretty weird that the girls at that restaurant haven't been as chatty with you lately. It's almost like they're giving you the cold shoulder or something.

The fact that they seem to have noticed you when you were there, but you've never actually talked to the sister, makes this whole situation even more puzzling. It's almost like they're aware of you for some reason, even though you haven't interacted with the sister at all.

I can see why you'd be feeling a bit confused and frustrated by the whole thing. It's never fun when there's some kind of weird vibe or tension, especially at a place you frequent.

My advice would be to just keep being your friendly, normal self when you go in there. Don't do anything to try and feed into whatever they might be thinking. Just focus on being polite and courteous, and hopefully the weird tension will blow over eventually.

If the girl you talk to the most keeps acting off, you could try to have an honest conversation with her about it. Let her know you're not interested in her sister at all, and you're not sure why she thinks that. Hopefully that can help clear the air.

Other than that, try not to overthink it too much, man. Sometimes people just get weird ideas in their heads, and there's not much you can do about it. Just keep being your cool, collected self and hopefully things will go back to normal soon. You got this!

[EmmaMary]

Just a suggestion... Try talking to her... Simples!

[Asker]

which one the girl i already know or her sister?

[EmmaMary]

The one you already know of course.

[Asker]

i saw her at her work again yesterday but she didn't really mention anything about this and didn't see the sister again either , we seemed to get along better

[In_Trance]

So what's your question